5 Reasons Gay Asians Should Give Up Potatoes

Gay Asian Men Potato QueensMany gay Asians have a problematic addiction to potatoes, aka white guys. I was there myself. For years, I always pictured the “ideal guy” for me to be a dashingly handsome white guy with the perfect features – blue eyes, sandy hair, and a bit taller than me.

Lucky for me, I woke up in time to smell the coffee. Many of my fellow gay Asians aren’t so fortunate. They stick to their proverbial guns and hang to the pipe dream of landing a white male model, even when they’re years past their dating prime.

If you’re a potato queen, I have news for you. You need to get over your addiction to white guys ASAP. Here’s why:

1. You need white guys more than they need you

For every white guy who’s open to dating an Asian, there are no fewer than 3 Asians fighting for his attention.

White guys are the least willing of all the races to date outside their own racial group, and when they do, there’s plenty of competition for them.

Don’t believe me? The folks over at OkCupid, one of the biggest free dating sites, collect statistics on this stuff. The picture isn’t rosy…

  • White guys are almost 4 times as likely as Asians to say they strongly prefer to date someone of their own race (43% vs 12%)
  • White guys only reply to Asians 35% of the time when they make contact, whereas Asians respond 55% of the time to white guys

See the disparity? There’s a much bigger potential pool of Asians seeking white guys, which means it’s a white guy’s market. Actually, going strictly by reply rates (read the chart vertically downwards), white men are the biggest snobs on OkCupid, with the lowest reply rates of anyone.

And even if you get lucky…

2. You’ll eventually get dumped for a younger, cuter Asian

White people invented the concept of leasing a car and trading it in when it’s old, and they’ve carried that concept over to their dating lives too.

97% of the time when you see an East-West (Asian-White) couple, it’s an older white guy with a substantially younger Asian. Because there are many more Asians seeking white guys than vice versa, white guys have plenty of choice, while potato-seeking Asians have to settle for whatever they can get. Usually, it’s an older, often chubbier white guy who, for all his shortcomings, is, well, white.

Years down the road when you’re getting a bit long in the tooth, you can expect to be traded in for a younger, hotter Asian model, and there will be plenty of those to choose from.

3. Rice queens don’t care about you as an individual

Although your average white guy is a poor dating choice for all the reasons above, you should be extra suspicious of rice queens.

A rice queen is a special variety of white guy that primarily (or exclusively) dates Asians. You may think that you’ve hit pay dirt when you land a rice queen, but you should beware – they only like you because you’re Asian.

White guys become rice queens because they like smooth skin, smaller bodies and what they perceive as more submissive personalities of Asian guys. When a rice queen sees you, he notices only those features he’s attracted to, not necessarily your other qualities.

At some point down the road, your rice queen will find an even better Asian who embodies even more of the qualities he likes, and you might end up sitting on the curb on garbage day.

4. Potatoes age faster

White guys age faster than us Asians, at least on the surface. Caucasian skin tends to be thinner and looser, and more susceptible to wrinkling at an earlier age. White men also gain a considerable amount of weight sometime after their early 20s, and that weight gain continues steadily until middle age, at which time it’s pretty rare to find a white guy who doesn’t have a visible beer gut.

What this means is that your 25-year-old Abercrombie model will see his looks depreciate considerably by age 35, and will almost certainly wind up in the visual bargain bin by age 45. How often do you hear people saying to white guys “OMG you’re 38?? You look 10 years younger!” And yet it happens all the time to Asians.

5. You will end up old and lonely

For all the reasons above, you’re unlikely to land the white guy of your dreams. And even if you luck out, it may be short lived.

A disproportionate number of my old, lonely gay friends are Asians and the one thing they share in common is a strong preference to date exclusively white guys. Year after year as they age they become even less attractive to the white guys who, as we’ve seen, have plenty of younger, cuter Asians to choose from.

If gay Asians want to do themselves a favor, they might consider being more open-minded to dating any other race besides white men, perhaps even giving other Asians a chance. It’s probably not a good idea to base a relationship on superficial physical criteria like skin, hair or eye color, which narrows down your choice of partners. Yes, physical attraction is difficult to consciously change but everyone’s looks fade over time and physical attraction is only a small part of successful long term relationships. At least, that’s been my experience.

595 thoughts on “5 Reasons Gay Asians Should Give Up Potatoes

  1. It Sweden’s that you think that way,I’m a 51 year old white male,that has been looking for an Asian male for a long time. Unfortunately with no luck,so when you say that every Asian male is looking for a white male,you are wrong! Not every Asian male goes for a white male,they also go for they’re own. I’m still looking and hope to God I find the right one. Think twice before you write something,and you’re home work more throughly.

  2. This has gone on for some time…. I think that it would be best to pretend its gone over your head and left it alone (*=A=*) And everyone’s opinion is to be respected but not disguarded ^_^ so lets bury the hatchet and turn the other cheek 😉

  3. I just don’t see how this is reasonable….nothing here does. Just because you think we should give up on being potatoes, all these statements you made are your point of view and many people took your concept wrong… You said that they would eventually get unattracted because Caucasians got attracted to other younger males, that is utterly insane and not logical. And age??? We all have the same aging rate. Get to a chemistry or a biology class because your statements, Angry Homosexual, is horrendous.

  4. err.. this is a very racist post.
    and it shows th strong bias of being only based on the US situation – or at least i presume so. I guess you need to look at other countries to realize the situation is much more complicated. not to mention the facts a lot of asians actually do prefer dating older people -dont ask me why.

  5. You can look the French website tribugay, which is for gaysians and their admirers. Now there are 11 caucasians online. only 1 of them is less than30. Most of them are over 40.As I know, seldom of them want to find asians with similar age. All of them want to seduce youth.So this is the reality. they actually act like the article.

  6. I’m very much in love with an asian guy and I’m having the best sex I’ve ever had. And I’ve always been attracked to all types of men (except white, thin, hairless ones…no twinks). I’ll happily date brown men or white hairy men, but thin white men make me think of 12 year old girls and I just get grossed out.

    My boyfriend often says “only white men with beards”.

    Attraction is a funny thing…I’m mostly attracked to mind, with only a specific body type that is not appealing.

    I think attraction is a personal thing and it’s nobody’s place to judge.

    I wouldn’t judge someone for liking apples, liking dick or liking white dick…

    1. I’m married to Acadian we have sex daily and live a great life for almost 15 years and met 18 years I’m just telling this dumb racist Asian homo how stupid he is. He to stupid to nderstand it’s what an individual wants not what he wants. He just like to hate. He wants I white guy. But he to dumb and ugly to have a Fb and His hate will run all away from his closet life.

  7. Do you think that people agree with this opinion are born to be racists? They only look the reality. They look that how do most caucasians do with asians. In many forums, I only see caucasians deceive asians, but never asians deceive caucasians. Have you ever seen this? Do not pretend to be blind and ignore the reality. Even if we are racists, it is not our fault. IT IS YOUR RESPONSIBILITY FIRST!!! DO NOT IGNORE THE CAUSATION!!!
    Ask yourselves, how many of you want to develop a serious and stable relationship with an asian? It is the problem of yours let more asians get far away from you, Now you blame we are racists? The most hilarious joke.

    1. So it’s someone else’s fault because your a racist. I guess it my fault your dumb ass hell too. Ignorance. Geez

  8. Hi everyone. As one of asian who attracted to white guy. There are many things that I need to clarify after reading this article.
    I grown up in a place where I never see any white guys in real life. I like white guys not because I choose to, but because they had always been in my mind. Just like you being a gay not because you choose to have sex with man instead of woman, we are born with that specific mind. So it will never change just because you failed to get a partner you desired. I’m happy with who I’m, even if I will end up alone when I’m old (who knows). It much better than forcing myself to be other asian, it will be unfair for them too.
    Also, white guys have feeling too, just like us. I don’t like how this article blames white guys for everything. And how you push the loser asians to accept each other. We are not a loser, we are more happier then you could imagine.
    For white guys who sincerily into asian, not because they are young and easy. Please take a good care of your partner, or single who still looking for the right one. We are out there somewhere, not those cheaters cruising at the gay scenes. 🙂

    1. Also for Joe, after I read your comments. I still can’t believe how you could mantain your relationship with that attitude again asians. If they said something stupid, you should laugh instead of angry. But then again you said you imported your bf from asian country, it all make sense now. Good luck with your marriage.

      1. My attitude come from this racist sight. Youust not read enough about me. I am a mixed who hate racist not people. I just hate people who. Hate for no reason other then they are ignorant racist and anybody who is gay but is also an ignorant racist deserved to be talked down top. Racist are ignorant low self centered sob who deserve their lonely boring life. While my soon to be husband whom I lived with for 14 years and dated 16 years have a great life. All I need to hate is haters. Lol. Racist fools are fun to mess with. Eas!!! Everyone has positives and negatives as long as people agrees with this angry Asian fag I will keep explaining how ducked up racism is. You know as an Asian the race thing. I have always been the minority so quit hating and I will quit basing my shit on a race. Anybody who thinks been a hating racist is ok can go fuck themselves. Yes I have my dream life with a non racist Asian. I live around Asian racist. Ignorant

        1. Racism is a part of this world. I know it very well as an oriental who born in south asian country. It supposed to make you stronger and wiser, not an angry hater. If you happy and content with your life, then don’t give a fuck about what people think. Your hate against asian will create more racism, someone have to learn how to stop.

          1. You are just ignorant I love Asian I hate racism and if anything to do with the hate of any culture do you not understand 1/4 American Indian is a minority in my own country I just hate people who hate for color race money. Bs. You got it I live peacefully with Asian here but they think you all are morons. Asians here think this sight is for moron Asians. Not me your own. They chose not to,tell how stupid this sight is. This a hate sight. I’m a lover not hater ask my Asian husband! Anti war anti gun anti racism anti bigot but don’t care to mess with dumb racist,though. Keep it up make me happy. Lol

    2. You almost got it right but relations are built on love and respect for each other if you try to force a relation it isn’t fair. Love can’t be forced. Arrange marriage was a way man contrled woman. Just like angry homo want to be the gay Asian dictator. Sorry people who think he is right are stupid morons

  9. Let someone indulge in self-delusion. This article appeared in Chinese bbs too. And almost all the people agree with the opinion of this article. More and more Asians will see the faces of the liars.

    1. Anybody who agrees with this article is racist ignorant fool. Wake up it’s the 21st century fools. What pisses me off is I been pushing for equal rights for all for 30yeRa to lustrous ignorant racist Asian guy to like a fool he is. And he have ignorant people who agree. Stupidest thing I can here. Racist is ignorant be ignorant I don’t care put on the web I will tell you. Just like the KKK/white power in America you are all ignorant and very narrow minded. Grows some balls

      1. You’re sadly mistaken if you think that you’re permitted to say anything, especially make threats. It’s too bad your Fuhrer didn’t gas your family back in the days. Maybe the Gaskammern und Ofen need to start up again.

        1. Threats Let me say it again you will die a little poor Asian man Old lonely man while I live a life luxury. Then I said your racist moron who need to stop your hate and find love because Karma is kicking your unhappy ass. Knock off the hate you whining ho

  10. Joe,
    Take a step back there. You need to acknowledge that you in fact are propagating racism the way you are peaking and the tone are taking. You need to understand and acknowledge that one, you’re not Asian so you do not know how we feel in much of a sense at all and from what I’ve read and two, the white privilege you have, and the white supremacy that is still quite present in society. Great, your relationship worked out in a sense, but the majority in w hite-dominated North America have a lot of discrepancies in it. Instead of criticizing others, try help to amend the damage that has been done to others. Asian men need to stop being sexualized, objectified, feminized, and racialized. Reflect on yourself and see perhaps, you do have some bottled up emotions and racism to push back up, commit yourself to helping people, and making a positive difference. I think everyone is trying to push to make a greater change in the future. Won’t you stop this and try to be a part of it too?~
    -Justin

    1. Stop what telling people how You are a stupid fag who your own people are bigots and Asia is racist continent. So quit hiding you have. Stop spreading hTe And racist crap. You sound like American right wi g dumb ass and most everything said in this article is wrong so act like a human not the Korean leader. Quit dictating people life. You have no business of judging you might want to be god but t your just a mouth that speaks shit. So shut up stop hating your a hate mongrel knock the shit off. Act like a human instead your just a scar d rat who can’t and never have what you desire a white husband. Try Europe we in Merica don’t need racist ass minority’s and we know the white guys down under don’t want you in their country you are one dumb Asian where you from that make you so hate happy people Hate kills cowards like and people like me say good rides a another ignorant hater gone. Bye Bo.

      1. Joe- the halfwit that escaped from the asylum: do the world a favor and kill yourself. You write like a child who is new to this country. We’re on to your lies.

        1. 1234point proven you ignorant racist can’t take the real truth who the sshes are I M an American liberal not a tea bag conservative who hate you for being Asian I just hate dumb fucking people like fucki g fGs who areoe men whores su think they are somebody. You are some in breed Asian from some 3 rd world who just jealous of my great life. Sorry lol. Karma. Love peAce and harmony. Not hate and racism. To bad they can’t afford your mental help you need. Poor Asian bo!’

          1. Joe: My email has been flooded with your racist and anti-gay posts (“fag” seems to be your favourite epithet). I think it’s time law enforcement was contacted. Your posts are becoming ever more threatening.

          2. You are becoming more and more ignorant daily. Perfect evidence you are an Angry Fag lol poor boy call away baby. What law you stupid want to be someone. Dangerous lol this sight should be shut down like any other hate sight. Hey I only hate ignorant racist like you so make some calls to god you need it to ever find you a man because your to ignorant to deserve anyone. Ignorant racist like you I said should die old and lonely You will be old and lonely because I realize you are ugly both inside and out that’s why your angry. Lol. Stay angry fag. And. Karma will keep kicking it. Lol guess my karma go I just picked up a contract I been working on that’s will be about another 50$k. USD. More then your life income in the communist authorities your calling on me. Lol. You dumb ass call the who on who I’m free to say and marry who I chose and live free. You can’t do nothing but set here and whine you ugly asshole. Quit hating groups of pele. Hate me for hating you for being a racist quit being a racist and I’ll quit telling you to go **** yourself. Ok. You will not show your picture on this sight because some Asian guy would kick your *** for being an ignorant b*****d in breed Tell your family you can’t keep breeding with each other that in breeds makes retards like you. So flood your gates homo with hate I ask for replies. Hmmm I guess they like to bitch to you better. I will tell any racist hater what I think

          3. What law enforcement and what planet are you from Call police you communist closet homo they’ll lock you up BOY. Wha t I threaten a stranger on the internet pele like you are a threat to civilization of man it’s the 21 st century in America your 3 rd world village can go to your one phone and call some one who gives a damn so I can tell them to go to hell and remove the HATE. SIGHT Quit hating. Lol. Think I will go have some Pho dinner here. Need some cheap grub

        2. Hey you ignorant racist I hope you get your balls cut off by your commi government. You sissy homo Asian bastard. Hate threats that’s all you. I’m all about loving all and hating haters. So haters I will leave a reply Go ahead emails can e zipped away Just like 1234 white by got zipped away for another quilfied make and model. Hate relationship are out. Lol love some. Oh forgot you have to love yourself 1 st. You can’t even do that. Lol

  11. All the anger in this conversation. Surprising! That aside- I find some asian guys physically and as people very attractive, and some asians seem to have felt that way about me. Younger guys and older. Dated both very happily. Also have had mutual attraction and ltr with caucasian guys. Attracted to hot guys of any race! I’m 6’2 caucasian in good shape, mid 40’s, green eyes, friendly. Adventurous, educated, professional. Alot of love & passion to give to a great guy! I think I’m down to earth, open. Any attractive (inside & out), available guys on here? 🙂

  12. Haha,someone in this website is so busy, keep replying for so much time.
    I seriously doubt that he and the author are the same person,to let this article be popular. Otherwise, how can a normal person pay attention to it for so long. Maybe we are all tricked by his”moving” love story. What a satire.

    1. Yes I hav such an easy life I like to watch idiots at work I have everything I want or need except a few more years of youth. No. Lol no youth needed I have all I want and newd. Winning a lottery won’t be nice but like my Asian husband and I have can’t be bought you must work for it. You will not find it in bars bath houses book store. Etc….. Most will never but us who work hard enough to find that special person then work even harder to make it work. Respect goes a long way. Judging on race and color is just being a bs racist. Worthless as the bigots who hates us all for just being gay. So I just enjoy publicing the ignorance of the racist that agreed with this. BS racist fool

      1. So what do you want to imply? Even if what you have said about youself is true, I can only say that you are lucky, and your husband is more lucky. He found a caucasian who likes asian. But no matter how many words you have used to argue, The probability is very very low. You can not escape from the reality. For example, so many people become rich because of lotteries. They are really lucky. But if they persuade others to buy lotteries to become rich like them, everyone will despise them. Your words can only harm these naive asian potato queens and they will imagine that their prince chariming like you will come soon. However, 90% of them will only get the disappointing results in the end. This is the reality. Why not face it ?

        1. Just having fun with more bs like your percentages anybody who listens to your racist crap seriously is 99.9% racist anybody who believes this is 100% crazy. So Have a Gay Olé Day

        2. Attitude likes your it would be closer to 100% will fail. If you believe your going to fail before you get started makes you a failed. You mentioned I said something about lottery be nice. You forgot that in any relationship it takes hard work to find and keep a spouse. I think most people are just to lazy or self centered to respect another human equally. So you all will never find love because you are looking for a good fuck 1st is what I said more nicely. I said if you run around being a bar, book store bat house etc.. FLY then go for it but if you want to work for it but if you want love you must work for. So yes most morons here is just like the angry homo To lazy to work on love to busy looking to get a nut. No better then a chicken hawk but they are the chicken but to dumb to know the difference. Go husband hunting 1st and try the sex 2nd it works better that way. Try a date or to before you test the merchandis. Get off the whole money issue because this place is about money and sexual attraction. Nobody mention love respect honor devotion until you idiots have a little understanding of these words then you are a hopeless case I will throw a bs number like angry homo less then 1% of finding anybody for any period of time. I have mixed race couple friends been together for 30 years and friends married for years. They all dated 1st then married they didn’t jump in bed with everything they found attracted Little Romance goes a long way but you fools can’t afford that(money is so important to 99.9% asian men) you think buying a guy a cocktail is romance. Try asking someone out to dinner and if you do don’t do it for sex. Try to restrain yourself for a second date Open your eyes for love not your legs for who ever!,,

          1. However, if potato queens can realize that they will have much more probabilty to succeed if they turn to asians. What I think is right is to change these naive asians’ thoughts, not simply encourage them.

          2. Your thought and beliefs is like taking a good shit. You need flush asshole. Quit been an ignorant mother fucker who doesn’t reconized racism if it bit your tee nie little weenie off because truthfully most asian boys mooch off of older men then leaves after they get a free ride. But the old man fuck the hell out of his big ass 1 st. By way most Asians are so fucking dumb that you don’t know what a condom is but I guess if condoms are large then they work on your teenie weenie any how. I always made sure. To use condom because asian are infested with diseases simple

          3. MOREOVER,don’t think that all asians are so eager to have sex like you Caucasians. I can say proudly that I can live happily without sex forever.I use my brain to live, not my cock and ass ! These asians who can’t control themselves when they see any Caucasian are disgusting. To say honestly, they don’t have the qualification to be asian!!!!!!!!!!!!Most of our asians will never be shameless like them!!!!!

          4. Your so full of crap go with no sex. Lies. Lies lies. Asian men lies about everything to everybody. They think that their family thinks their str8 but the whole family doesn’t want to talk about my family that’s a cowards way out. So that’s the perfect asian men’s life, hide it from everybody and I or anybody else, trust a person whom they watch lie to the world. I wouldn’t trust no closet case homo so I guess my husband and I will keep our happily open life style why you go off lie to urself and you think your fooling people but think about. They know you like the white boys or this wouldn’t interest you.

          5. Sorry, we put our work and lives first, not sex like some people. Maybe he will be mad even if he does not have sex for three days.One can call him the fxxking machine better, haha.

        3. Jeopardsy that’s why your so pissed off and by what you a bunch of angr Asian who can’t have something because they are to big of cowards to work on relations just how not to find a husband. Knock the hate off you racist punk

  13. I’m a ‘potato’ which you should probably hate, I’m looking for a husband (as in a partner for life). Isn’t that what this whole article hates about white men? (sarcasm)

    Thanks for rounding up everyone and writing them off as one type overall. Personally I find it racist / bigoted to slap a label on an entire group of people based on the ways of some. I found this article looking for a dating website.. Most racist thing I’ve read in a few weeks, all in the form of a bitter rant.

    Maybe I’ll change my mind and go back to being single after my 4 year break, I had two relationships with asian guys that refused to date just me, both essentially stating that they wanted to marry me but have sex with others along the way. I could make a bitter article about it and slam all Asians in some racist post, but I know that not all men are like that, especially not all Asian men.

    Fuck you author for being racist – but and the same time, hugs, I hope you get over however you were hurt.

    1. Asian mean are mainly closet case homosexual who lies to their families and everybody around them about their sexuality. Why would anybody trust a group of habitual liars. Angry homosexual article proves he is a bs liar an ignorant one too.

      1. Honestly, I wouldn’t care that much if he didn’t want to leave the closet, I would adjust to it – provided he was faithful and actually loved me.

        Sadly, I’m still making under 250k a year, so Tim won’t take me back.. He has standards for who he loves. Vu just can’t understand why I won’t keep a retirement plan in mind for us both and ‘wait for him, if I truly love him’ while he enjoys adventures of other men ‘while he’s young and can’. I could be just as angry and bitter and grow just as racist as OP has, but it wouldn’t make me a better person.

        I guess I’ll enjoy weekends on my boat alone, making grilled veggies and shrimp while sipping on some pinot grigio. At least miserable (and hated for it) can be made tolerable.

        On a side note – it’s funny how OP is so pissed off about how white men don’t always keep a great body (even though we can very easily), it says a great deal about what matters to him in a person – not the person, but the body.

        1. AAH has nobody money nice looks is good love is great. AAH had his heart broke and know man going to put up with like the smart white man who through him to the curve. He doesn’t understand that love has little boundaries and his pansy lonely sole has nobody. If you have nobody to share those blood sandy guys he so desire he just has his hook ups I been here a while there has been a lot of hook ups here email exchange. Little rice tater hookups. Wish they kept us all updated on their love life. It be more then AAH has to say or guess about. Have a great dayb Bon voyage

  14. I’m white and all the Asians I have dated were older than me and most of them cheated on me and broke up with me so……
    Sorry if I don’t fit your mold?

    And you do sound really bitter. Just date who you like. It’s obvious the author loves white guys because if he didn’t he wouldn’t be so bitter and take the time to write this stupid post.

    1. Chris before I met my bf I found asian guys an easy lay at the bar but I had to import one that hadn’t been hiding out in night clubs bath houses parks bath houses and book stores. If you chose to go to these places fine you will find some chicken Hawks looking for some chicken. These angry asian homos thinks that they look like little boys. Lol. a 30 yo asian guy looks like an 30 yo simple. Everybody with an open mind knows Angry Homo had his heart broke but he might find his white prince someday. I never a couple yet who said they were not attracted to their partner. So number one relation is attraction then through a little love and respect then you have something most here is to narrow minded o ever have a Relationship with more then a goldfish have a gay. Make some one smile. Send angry homo a message of how you love him for fun jk

  15. Maybe someone has persecution mania. When talking about reality, without any subjective colour, he will say you are a racist. Putting labels on others freely is really terrible.

  16. So funny. I became a racist idiot? What I have said is the reality between you caucasians, isn’t it? Now you make unfounded countercharges. I believe that your IQ will not be higher than me. You don’t have the qualifications to blame me. Come on, if you older caucasians have the backbone, stop seducing our asians, OK?

      1. Your the racist you fool you so racist you blind I don’t live in the white world you idiot I liv in Asian Latino community. so you quit the hate fool learn and shut your mouth. Listen God gave 2ears my husband was my 1st Asian bf. If something happen to him I wouldd stay with a Latino without the racist crap

      2. Truth is I have a asian husband who we both will live happily ever after lol for life and you have nobody and you you will remain Truthfully just a racist fool. Yes you are the racist fools I don’t care who screws who I have a monogamous relation of over 14 years and will marry my asian husband. I live openly in a almost str8 family neighborhood of mainly asian Latina. The Truth is we all get alone because we are not racist bigots. So get a life. Oh that’s right narrow minded people can’t because everybody business is their’s lol I have fun with your ignorance keep it up make me happy. Sorry Truth you find that perfect someone when you grow up but probably not. Lol. Narrow minds usually remain narrow like a dry stream narrow and shallow U have gay angry homo day

    1. You think you own Asians your fucking. Asians belong to you. WhT you some Asian dictator quit been a stupid contro freak

  17. Maybe the opinion is not right.But in my view,the probabilty of a Caucasian is rice queen is less than5%.Even he is,How do you know that he will like you and you like him?This probabilty cannot be higher than 5%,so the total probabilty is less than 5%✘5%=0.25%.Maybe this is even an optimistic calculus. It just like buying an lottery.Lottery will cost your money,and looking a right rice queen will cost your time.
    Of course,I admit that there are many asian and white couples, like there are many millionares because of buying an lottery. Everyone want the same result like them.But one‘s live can never depends on it. So for me, a chinese student have nothing but some mathematics, the only thing I can do is to study hard and become excellent. That‘s all.

    1. You talk math and money but to dumb to know relationship isn’t based on neither. You also know that your racist idiot that your calculation is like an angry asian homo is based on NOTHING except you don’t have nobody I have my husband of 14 years an rest of our life to go. So sad all you angry asian homos wake up and oh there nobody there 14 years from now. Will death do us part will seperate me(Irish German Native American)and my husband(chinese from M’sia. Quit been racist and search out your life partner or like angry homo says(one thing he got right)you die alone and lonely what he should of went on to say when you put BS foolish limits. Sounds like a bunch straight people arguing over if we are gay or we just chose to like the same sex. Be ignorant racist and act like the other racist bigots in this world. Stop fearing us who made it losers. You want everybody to be lonely too. Lol. Go for it. Find that perfect asian man. Lol

    2. What difference does the probability make? Stop narrowing your prospects with whom you date. I’ve dated whites (duh), blacks, Latinos, and one and only one Asian. As with you, he was a student stuck in a Midwestern city that has very few Asians and thought that white guys didn’t like Asians. We met in a bar and I was just looking for some cheap, meaningless, anonymous sex. We’re still together and now married almost 19 years later…

      1. …And he still doesn’t get it when I joke that proper etiquette demanded that he be gone when I woke up the next morning…

  18. I’m the only Asian gay guy in an almost 100% white city, I’m forced to study here, and no one knows how bitter is my life. Sometime I also wonder how have I survived my last five years in this fxxxxxx city…

    1. So the dumb asian thinks the average white guy is blue eyed sandy hair. Lol Most people including whites America does not have blue eyes. So wake up deranged asian guy look for a mate not a color. Quit playing with chicken Hawks and get you a person who is good for you but with your closed mind you will have troubles from all races. For stuck wrong place so sad to bad but did the white community you live in put you there. I am 1/4 Irish 1/2 German 1/4 Native American living with my soon to be asian husband of 14 years in a diverted but straight neighborhood Why are you so angry because what my husband and I made it. Sounds like a bunch of jealous people without a life but just need to hate people because you are miserable lol. Get help. Angry homo knows he loves gay white men. Seek what you like and mind your business will get further. My gay asian husband thinks you all are idiots and so does my many mixed race friends. You get it missed race. I’m not white I don’t have hair on my body but I would be a potato as far as angry rice homo classification. How stupid does a racist homosexual sound. I lived in non white residents my whole life I am tired of seeing racist idiots not understand how stupid this whole bs is. Geez

  19. Truth is you think that the asian community as whole is a racist bunch of people I live with them. You so stupid you don’t understand my asian husband and I are mainly around non racist non angry asian American lol. Happy happy not an angry ass homo like you harmony Hun quit the war fools are racist like this whole article. Of fools like you who think racism is white thing lol. Keep thinking like a fool!!!!!!!!!!!!!

  20. LOL. Yeah that’s totally NOT a stereotype, white guy wants a submissive Asian who keeps his mouth shut, unless he’s told to open it for him of course. You disgust me. And for the last time, get it through your skull that this is about THE MAJORITY of white gays, NOT. ALL. You getting married to an Asian guy means absolutely nothing in this community FULL of anti-Asian gays.

    1. We have mutual respect just both of us have. Zero respect for racist assholes like you. You remain angry and all your angry friends we are happy happy. And you so sad. Lol. Ignorant racist doesn’t understand how ignorant racism is sick little mind.
      Be happy. Oh you can’t because your a lonely angry homo. Asian racist

      1. Don’t know who you’re talking to, since you keep mentioning “racist”. Pointing out there are racist white gay guys doesn’t make me racist against whites. Sorry you can’t seem to wrap your brain around that.

    2. Not true. But I have been told by my longtime Asian partner that the reason you see so many young Asians with old white men is simply because the Asians are gold diggers going for the old goat’s money. Sure, there’s some affection there but mostly it’s for the money.

  21. Damn you’re bitter…

    I guess that I need to tell my Taiwanese husband of the last 18 years that it’s time for me to trade him in on a younger, cuter model. Oh, wait, that’s not right. He was older than I was in the first place…

      1. 100% true for the majority. Stupid statement as the writer who wrote it. 100% and the majority. Your stil wrong and ignorant. Grow up Listen

        1. If you knew how to read you’d know I said 100% OF the majority. You’re still a butthurt whitey mad cause this speaks the truth of something most want to sweep under the rug.

          1. The truth is this racist bs and I will marry my gay partner of 14 years in September and we will prove this bs angry homo theory is as screwed up as you are racist. Grow up homo and listen and learn sorry you can’t find nobody but listen and keep trap shut and you might find someone who can stand you. Asian with attitudes is why white guys get rid of them after a while they realize your crazy. Thank god I got a sensible one.

          2. I know rite.XD this realy does also feel 100% truth. I sometime get random messages from gay white men. The first thing they say is ” your cute” . Then I don`t know how to reply bak. Next they asked for more profiles picturs and it does feel weird to askd for someones picturs when yu jus greet thm.. an they would ask what yur races and etnicity . I woul reply bak. Of course asian. He would asked bak wat kinds I would say tai, vietname, chinese , mongolien, then they text hertand it freks me out. My most exteme case was a whit man fom switzenlend. That lives in sinapore 49 yers old mary to a 37 yer old sinapore chineese. He mesage me an say hi and i reply ? Hy. He stated askd my age I reply 16? He get all hapy. Then I askd him ar yu mary? He say yes to a chineese . He askd do yu hav more picturs. I say ? Wat yu mean? He say yur cute then I feel crepy out. He say send me nuds picturs I say no go awey. He say come on. I say yur cheting on yur hudban an yu wil get me in poblem wit him an I am dating alredy . He askd he if I hav heir in my armpitd an botom. So I jus end replying after he askd he that part. His boyfield woldnt listn so I letd it ofd. Weirest chet everd. He did reply say he only like asian. An told me his huband was to old 37 an likes yonger asian but reply say he hav sex wit him alot. So a lot of gay white man prey on asian boys for sex and submisive botom onof there looks and skind. White man an asian man dont go togthr it the truth. I never been atract to white so it do never afects me. Sory my enlish I spek a few other an it not my native. Be awred abot that.

          3. you must understand just because a man is old and hitting on a kid is chicken hawk although at 16 in USA you just be young piece of meat to them. Stop listening to the non sense of this whole race thing age thing blah blah if you are 40 and you fall in love with a an 20 and vice a versa then who’s business is it. just guessing the sight would been gay adult talk chat. what right for you is for you to chose. when you start throwing words like angry homo potato potato queen rice queen taco queen blah blah 2 consenting adults doing what they want is No ones business. Every gay person has an horror story or 2.

      2. We live in an area that has very few Asians so I don’t know about the “majority” but I will acknowledge that whenever we are on vacation in the states, the mixed couples that we see do tend to be older white guys with indeterminate aged Asian guys.

        The flip side to that is that whenever we are in Taiwan, people tend to look at me like I have two heads…

        1. You seem to be missing the point love also do not give shit about age, it’s about to adults being HAPPY. Not age not race then the with angry fag is he lonely and closed minded is going to die as an old homo and alone. As for you did those couplet you see there or America look sad or happy. That’s the real question most of my friends R happy mixed race gay couples. Most of us are legally married my husband will bec an American citizen because of this happy American to then we will just be an American couple next we will adopt a mixed race kid to be part of our American family the reason you see old gay white guys and asin is because the are not hiding in a closet

      3. You sound bitter. I am Caucasian. I only date Asian men and all I want is an LTR with a mature Asian man. I am not going to debate your stats but I believe a more thorough study would find different results.

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