Who doesn’t like being a hot white guy? You’re pretty much a Greek god in the gay community and there really isn’t anybody you can’t get. For others, you often find “no asians, no blacks” in dating profiles, which shows how racist and white-centric gay dating can be.
You see, there’s a totem pole of races in the gay community, with white people at the very top. It sorta goes like this: White, Latino (honorary whites), Mixed, Asian, Black, Indian, etc. This hierarchy is responsible for all kinds of phenomena in the gay world. Take, for example, the fact that Asian-White couples often consist of an older white guy with a younger Asian. Or at the very least, an Asian who’s substantially more attractive than his white counterpart. It’s never the other way around.
The bias extends to pop culture. When was the last time you saw an Asian Abercrombie model? All of the main characters on Queer as Folk were white. Heck, all the main characters in the latest HBO gay drama Looking are white even though the show is set in San Francisco where a third of gays are Asian. And of course, how can we forget about gay porn?
And so I wanted to find out for myself what every gay Asian knows – no matter how hot or young you are, you’ll suffer the inevitable Asian “discount” that’s applied when you hit the dating/hookup market. What better way than on the most shameless, unapologetic, and narcissistic venue: Grindr.
The Asian vs. White Grindr Experiment
Who’s hotter?
I whipped out two phones, loaded Grindr, and put two similar looking jocks to the test: 28, 5’10”, 170lbs, muscular, 8”uc. What’s not to like? Their profiles were exactly the same except one was Asian and the other white. I carried around the two phones for a week to different cities and here’s what happened.
Raw uncut data
So being Asian my whole life, I finally know how it feels to be a hot white guy for a week. The white guy comfortably gets 1.5 – 2x more messages than the Asian. There’s no other conclusion than it’s great to be white. You’ve got twice as many guys lined up ready to suck you off or get pounded by you.
Another thing you notice is that there are many hot guys who are simply off limits to Asians. Here’s one guy I tried to message as the Asian and it didn’t get very far. Gays love to use the “not my type” excuse as cover for any number of prejudicial preferences. When I message the same dude as the white guy, and I instantly get cockshots, details on how much he wants to pound my ass, and whether I can host.
As a hot white guy, you can expect a near 100% reply rate. In fact, you wind up with the problem that more guys are messaging you in a day than you can realistically sleep with in a month. This explains why as a white guy you can get away with being a complete douchebag. Why would you waste your time with anyone other than the cream of the crop? And why settle down when you can have an endless stream of orgies?
As an Asian, you can only hope to be so lucky to get the pleasure of a response. Just for fun, I sent a fellow Asian a message as the white guy. He thought it was some kind of joke, like I was a white guy coming to the back of the bus.
Conclusion
If you’re a hot white guy, keep on doing what you do best – being white. You’ve got it made until your skin starts to sag. But not to worry, you’ll still have younger Asians flocking to you.
If you’re not white, the only real solution to this problem is to pray to god that you’re born white next time. There’s an inherent bias against us and you need to know for all intents and purposes, you have no realistic chance of dating a hot white guy your own age. Changing the mentality of a whole community doesn’t happen overnight, and it certainly won’t happen in your generation.
stop being an idiot! It’s all about the size matter, neither colors nor regions.
Im Asian and I CANT do whites.
Interesting. Except Asians seem to play by the same rules given all the Asians I have approached on Grindr who either don’t respond or block. Of course, I’m lower on the totem pole …
Also distressing are those who go for non-whites only if they fit very particular racial stereotypes.
And don’t forget, fat white men are knocked a few rungs down the pole as well.
why do you want a white guy ? because most give so much importance to the white guy its the reason he thinks he can get away with him being a complete douche bag. what is so special about being a white guy ? I can not agree with your lineup. everybody is attracted to certain types of guys and that doesn’t mean that all people like white guys. blacks are also in high demand !! however I do understand your point and this has a long history going back how people were brainwashed with the taught that white people are the elite and role models. Sad !! if you think grindr is the place where white are favourite, then search with some other app. show them your best qualities, and I don’t mean only your great body, this will give a better chance to meet really interesting people you will enjoy a nice time with..
I don’t disagree with what you’ve written, but you must understand that discrimination goes both ways. I’m a white guy who is only attracted to Asians. Not “into” Asians, but for some reason beyond my knowledge I can’t get it up with other races.
I have always strived for a relationship based on equality, so I’ve always looked for relationships with Asians around my own age. I’ve been “out” since I was 25 and I’m now 46. My experience has been that Asians don’t date white guys unless they are older and usually with incomes greater than their own. There are exceptions, but they are not the norm.
I’ve always been told I’m attractive and young-looking, but that’s been a turn-off in the Asian world. And I’ve never been an ambitious careerist, satisfied with an income that gets me by. Again, that’s been a factor. I think both whites and Asians have a lot of soul-searching to do when it comes to their relationships with each other. Yes, the older white/younger Asian dynamic is prevalent, and I’m critical of white guys who only go for younger guys, but at the same time I’m critical of Asians who only go for daddies. So before you start blaming whites for this dynamic, remember it takes two to tango — speak to your fellow Asians and tell them to stop looking up to white guys.
By the way, if a white guy says you’re “not his type”, be thankful he’s polite about it. So what if he’s not attracted to Asians? When I lived in Singapore, the vast majority were “not into” white guys, and I saw nothing wrong with that. It’s not racist.
I wrote about this issue from the white perspective on my blog:
http://the-waiguoren.blogspot.ca/2013/01/on-being-white.html
Racism is to treat one ethnic group differently from another based on ethnic background… Therefore to have a sexual preference that is based on ethnicity is ‘racism’… just saying….
hey i love asian guys! and im a white guy! and im only 24. like white guys are not so hot to me… but damn an asian man thats REALLY hot
I agree with the majority of this and it is completely unfortunate. I disagree with the passive obliviousness that this article proposes. I know where the chips lie and it’s important to acknowledge that fact or you just can’t move forward with your life. Living in a blissful naïveté just won’t cut it or change people’s perceptions. I definitely try to bring it up when I can and I most definitely don’t make Asian jokes because that just reinforces stereotypes. You can’t change the whole group’s attitudes but you got to address it to make people start to carefully reassess them. This article started strongly but ended weakly.
As a “hot white guy”, I can say I would never get with white guys are they’re too sleazy. I usually prefer asians as they’re a lot classier. Or dark skinned guys because who doesn’t love hot brownies in their mouth 😉
So the author is saying that potatoes are, in fact, stickier than rice? I think any of us with a kitchen, a stove, two pots and a bags of both rice and potatoes could prove his silly reasoning wrong…
I agree that the articulation of your preferences can be degrading to the listener however I dont believe that what attracts us is a matter of conscious decision making or the politics of minorities so to persecute others for being honest is stupid in the extreme…. Especially as if he were to go onto an Asian site there are plenty of “Asian only” and “no whites” profiles, which he conveniently does not mention.
urgh, Asian gays shit me with this constant bullshit, you go to Asia and it is totally the reverse result. As a white guy married to an Asian guy (of the same age no less) and going to Asia for years this self serving whinge really bores me.
I have a weird predicament as I’m half white/half asian.
I can look both on different days.
It’s awkward when guys say they’re not into Asians on their profiles and then contact me. It’s half of who I am.
Their response is: “You’re an exception”. I don’t want to be an exception to someones rules and tastes and preference. It’s not a compliment. =[
An exception because I look more white than asian? I have both asian and white features and I’m just so so so tired of the confusion with the guys that only prefer white guys. Too hard basket for me.
Ugh… That would upset me… Especially when you want to embrace your Asian side… Never let that Asian side be hidden… For ZERO!
That’s right!
Before reading this article I already guessed what is the whole story about. A desperate sexy Asian gay guy failing to be popular in a sex dating world. I am Asian who has been living in Aus for 18 yrs and travelled to Europe, US, Canada and Asia of course and I felt the same sometime. But I am 42 now and back in my day we went out to clubs or cafe to meet people. I didn’t find myself difficult to get picked up, I am always shy to make first approach.
The irony with your anecdote is that a sexy white guys not always prefer Asian. One of my good friend then was one of them, who complained to me about Asian were rude and interested in money only, which is not true , right. His opinion was expressed to me at the time he was upset as he couldn’t get Asian man he wanted. So the world has changed to make everyone easy to meet stranger today. You don’t have to get out of your very convenience couch to meet men. There are a number of gay sex dating app out there and some of them specifically favour Asian to White. So, ditch the grinder!
I have a white man partner, his look resemblance to Gerard Butler from 300, who is a year older than me. We’ve been together for 8 years and met at a straight friend’s party. Cheers.
Another Asian reject Whitey???…!!! Purely speak from their own twisted gay experience with less inferior intelligence and premature pale looking in their own western world. Feeling so sad for those western world grew up or born gay Asians who lost their identity and heritage. Many have been brain washed told. they less superior by those rejected white trash in the western world. when they do not have anything to be proud of with low esteem ….they put other races down to make them feel better……!!
Luckily I was born and bred in Asia and now live in most unintelligent/uncultured White trashy convicts Australia compares to most of the western world. They totally reversed my preference to men.
After travelling 50+ countries and done almost any race gay men….I found the most popular gay men equally divided by Turkish, Orientals, latinos and SE whites then other percentage go to other Arabs, Whites, blacks, Indians.
If to choose whites, my preference would be nothern American, Russuians, Italians, Spanish, Australia then west European then North Europe. It’s not your skin color, it’s who you are to show to the whole world.
I also learned your skin color does not give you better advantage or less. It’s how you carry yourself and think about yourself before others think of you. When I was told by whites they won’t do other Asians except me, I replied to them ” î perhaps would do other whites except you!” If I encounter any sticky rice or potato trash….I encourage them should get out more!
Have seen so many Asian reject whites, white reject Asians or blacks whoever they are in different part of the world. No one. comes up on the top so far!
For those who are non whites live and grown up in a predominantly White countries……do some soul searching, travelling, read and meet different people around the world and rediscover who you really are underneath of your skin. No one can break you except yourself ! For those narrowed minded white narsarccist……be lonely and die alone would be your destiny!
It’s hard enough to live in a gay workd, be kind to others and yourself. God bless all.
OMG. That’s a horribly generalised thing to say about Australia. Yes there are pockets of “Bogan” in Australia and the conservative government doesn’t do itself any favours but I love this big old country and its quirks.
Not sure what you mean by “totally reversed your preference”. Are you able to elaborate?
I LOVE this… I am a black male and I LOVE this response….
Someone with little intelligence
can we see the same research done with Jack’d? I think it would be interesting. I’m Caucasian and live in china and had many of the same experiences but inverted… On Jack’d. Context is everything.
Plus grindr is shit on top of that. Your obviously looking for just a fuck. So why should we have sympathy about this? aww you can’t get a quick fuck by a white man. What a tragedy!
Oh gosh this bullshit again? can we have some respect for ourselves?
Why the fuck do we care so much about this? do you want a white man this bad???
Why do you worry about what it’s like to be a white man on grindr? why do y’all constantly post articles about white men? and how they don’t wanna date Asians or whatever.
Why not message an asian guy? a black guy? a middle eastern guy? i promise your head won’t explode. Or like Ty said above… are you all secretly like the white men? you cry about now having white dick. And then won’t give someone of another (or your own) race a chance?
I wish some Asians can have some fucking respect for themselves. And stop obsessing over whether white men like them or not -,-
well said
Hey this is probably the best reply to this post, EVER. Thank you.
There is a lot I want to say about this article but I dont have time so I am going to keep things very simple.
A bit about me- I have been in the gay community, as a gay Asian for over 25 years now and I have heard all this stuff before and here is what I have learnt.
-The gay white hierarchy doesnt exist and neither does the concept of the gay community. Good looking young white guys are neither on the top of or bottom or in the middle. They are any where you want them to be because you made the hierarchy up based on your own shallow prejudices and pain, hurt and rejection because of your experiences of being an gay Asian. Your negative experiences do not mean that gay community is hateful or racist, though you may feel it. For your information, young good white looking guys also have a lot of issues, too- relating to coming out, their families, drug, alcohol, relationships (cant hold one!) society,
life in general. Things are not what it seems. If any thing they have more issues than older gay people in the gay community. Dont judge.
-I am living proof of why this article is wrong. I am pretty average in terms of looks for an Asian but I have had many good looking, younger white bf ( i hate using the word “WHITE”) and I get a lot of hateful stares from other Asians. For some reason and I think it’s to do with jealousy, gay Asians behave really weirdly as in badly when I am around them. They would either try to steal my white bf because they think they are better looking than me or just plain desperate or they would just say I am a potato queen. Little do they know I am into Asians as well. Being judgmental is not an exclusively white thing.
-There is a need for Gay Asians to accept themselves and to be kind to themselves and move on from this Gay Asian Complex. So what if he doesnt get much attention from grindr? So what if he gets less messages that your token white guy? FYI The last time I checked the survey (really biased and badly designed. If that was a uni assignment you would get zero. The survey is biased) the Asian guys still got plenty of replies. But so what if the Asian got no replies? It doesnt matter. People get rejected all the time on grindr, so what? It’s not the end of the world. Please deal with it constructively. At the end of the day it’s your choice in how you deal with your own perceptions and emotions. You can either feel hurt or dont. The choice is yours. It’s also your choice to feel angry and get caught up in this make belief world of “racism in the gay scene” or create a gay culture that is based on diversity, love and any thing else that you want it to be. Culture is a by product or your imagination. It can be whatever or nothing. You are much more powerful than you think. What am I saying? Get beautiful, celebrate happiness, knowledge, beauty and every thing else the world has to offer and some thing magical will appear- amazing people. It’s the law of attraction.:)
That was beautiful. When I first came out in the gay world I became jaded very quickly. I’m a white male and was rejected by other white males.
“You are much more powerful than you think. What am I saying? Get beautiful, celebrate happiness, knowledge, beauty and every thing else the world has to offer and some thing magical will appear- amazing people. It’s the law of attraction.:)”
-Preach it!
I think it’s more helpful if you can share how you get more good looking younger boyfriends ( White or not, it doesn’t matter).
sorry for my inconvenience english, but i have to say something.
Those people who said this article is dumb or idiot are really don’t wanna know truth.
people tend to avoid the truth , because the truths are always uncomfortable.
i already have done that experiment before, have asian photo, white photo, black photo on grinder and jackd. and I’m so agree with dis article. i got plenty of message from asians and whites and blacks , when i have white profile.
if you have jackd and please change your location to middle east, and europe. it is worse than USA. they officially post their profile said that “not really into asians”
the writer admit it and doesn’t complain at all, he just tell the truth that how gay community is seriously full around racism behind the community.
let me ask for those who said this article is dumb , are you just don’t wanna read a fact of gay culture? or you are one of white guy who just not into asians?
The thing is they actually speak up said ” not into asians” mentioned the word of race “asians” follow that not into is not just preference , it just come out based on “hate+ness”
anyway. i agree with this article. more uncomfortable issue , more we need to faced on.
My fellow Asian brother. Can I ask you this…
Do you truly want equality for all races. When it comes to dating and all that. Or do you just want a white man? Is this article just a “fuck whitey, but I only fuck with whiteys” article? If so that’s a problem.
It sounds like you are obsessed with white men. Instead of wasting time being angry about white men. Why not date another Asian? A black man? Middle eastern? Etc.
Or is white your “preference” in that case your no different. Cause your shutting down other races like the whites are.
im.white and im totally agree with that !!
and no im not over 40 :p
Very valid point Ty! Asians specifically target white guys as their preference!! There are plenty of Asian guys aparently not wanted by whites to go around to all the Asian guys!! Is there not??
Dear Ty,
Horizontal violence, much?
What part of the country do you live in? In Seattle, hot Asian jocks are probably as popular as white jocks. You should visit. 🙂
Both are just as big as douchebags as well; must be a contest that I just didn’t get when I lived there.
Maybe, if this same thing was done in China, or thailand or such the results may have been
Different??
I guess this article is proof having a tiny yellow penis makes you a shrill bitter queen.
Yet you have not said anything that actually disproves this social experiment.
I read this article and it doesn’t even sound spiteful, to me I read pretty much as socially factual.
Thankfully I’ve already learned the results of this experiment and accepted it long ago.
Wrong but you prove to be yet another white racist douche bag who lives off of privilege.
You are an idiot…. Yet gays want to be equal in society
We’ll reopen the gas chambers and ovens of Auschwitz Birkenau just for you.
This Article is fucking dumb…. I have better things to do in my life then count how many one night stand messages I get on Grindr
Stupid article, at the end of the day we all have looks and features we are and are not attracted to!! I’m attracted to white guys and Middle Eastern… Sometimes others, but I’m not attracted to the facial features that make an Adrian an Asian just like I’m not attracted to the features that make a woman a woman!!
And we care because? You clearly don’t get the point of what causes these attractions, so go cry somewhere else.
Who do i cry to when an Asian guy says that he will only date Asians or jocks w jocks or twinks w twinks? Attraction is more than just skin deep for most people.
To boil it down this way makes us all look silly. But it doesn’t prove your point.
And the looks we are attracted to are highly shaped by the media to which we are exposed.
Agreed.
You are an idiot…. Yet gays want to be equal in society
Stop using my name! I am ashamed of the shit you say! This article makes valid points and many gay, Asians, have experienced it! At the very least it makes for a very valuable qualitative account of the gay, Asian, dating and sexual experience!
life isn’t all about sex unless you are a sex addict, which is really sad. Your main concerns shouldn’t really be how easily you can get your d__k sucked. Not all white guys are hot, only a percentage of them, and most of them are indeed douchebags. I really blame the asians who exclusively date white guys for this. It shows your low self esteem issue and a sad individual who has been white washed by the media.
This.. “It shows your low self esteem issue and a sad individual who has been white washed by the media.”
awesome description: white washed by the media.
white privileges.
sorry, what you are saying is based on what?
I am south east asian (yes that is also another part of asia, where people look different), and I definately not like most of the asians, just because they are ugly and have a really tiny d…ck, and I tried having sex with them, but it never works out, my dick is not responding to you, so why the hell are you blaming us on your own problems, try to fix it yourself nd stop complaining.
It shows your low self esteem issue and a sad individual who has been white washed by the media.
low esteam issues? white washed? arent you getting brainwashed yourself and believe in every lie you re making up, so you feel good about yourself?
its called a mental illness, fix it and stop bothering people with it, ugly retard, not my problem that you are ugly, you made it yourself.
and yes indians are on the bottom list of all asians, people who like asians, doesnt men they like every asian type, soutcheast asia is on top, then north asia (china/korea/japan), and then southwest asia (indians and go more to the west), indians are the ugliest of our race, they do not have manners, arrogant stinking and they think they are really hot and smart……but they know it is just a farce so they can keep up living positively in their own world….bollywood……for crying out loud
Southeast on the top? You fu****** kidding me? Most of the bad reputation of Asians were made by Philippine, Vietnam Thailand. White colony and salavery, …, most of those slutty Asians with old white grandpa are from southeast Asian. Because poor, salavery, low IQ….
On the top? Shameless people ever…
All hot guys tend to have a bit of douche in them
Yes Indians r at the bottoms we all know that.
I’m an Indian man with what would be considered white-ish features, small-sharp features, big dark eyes, full lips and light brown skin. Nobody believes me when I tell them I’m Indian. They always assume I’m latino/protuguese/persian. But when I tell them I’m as indian as indian can be… I get blocked. Or people say things like “OMG you are too pretty to be indian”. The sad thing is if you go to india there are men of all different skin and eye colours… even red-heads! And we are definitely not less attractive than any other race. But media and advertising only represents us as call-center employees, first generation immigrants with bellies and a horrible accent. We are never part of a fashion spread in a magazine or the young goofy boy playing around in a commercial. Every other race including black and asian men are represented like that as a sign of diversity. But not indian men. Thats why we are considered to be ugly.
Yes. It’s the same with mixed people. I’ve had many people who are fine with white/latin mixes but not white/black mixes, even if it was clear that they were, in fact, attracted to you. It’s the category that causes them to flip the switch.
That is because India is a mixed race country (like most countries). Nationality does NOT equal race. I know Indians that are white-looking, black-looking, the typical Indian-looking, and Chinese-looking. Same with many other countries in Asia and elsewhere.
Sorry Indians are just ugly… and the rest is true.. and its the taste and skin smell.. its awful. . on rare occasions there are some very good looking indians but then the typical indian slavery and rude behaviour comes as an obstacle… Sorry line up goes white, mixed, black for sure
You are an idiot…. Yet gays want to be equal in society
Gee, Oliver, stereotyping much???
Hi Rusty, don’t be sad! For me Indians are gorgeous. I had 2 Indian ex, one is like you another one is more darker. Both are smart, caring, nice, and good kisser! So basically I think it’s just about preference, like u like tea, I like coffee!
Love Indians! 🙂
I think Indians are one of the most beautiful races out there. The beauty is unbelievable. Its really sad to think that the world looks at cultures this way.
I am Latino/Puerto Rican and find Indians attractive. Especially Indians from Guyana. There is a lot of diversity in India due to British occupation. The same is true of Puerto Ricans. I am college educated yet there are times when I meet white guys and they talk to me as if I am an uneducated ghetto person. Yes white gays could be just as racist as their str8 counterparts.
Two words: Ajay Naidu. :9
I’ve had a colleague who looks like Latino but actually Indian.
I have to tell you that I find Indian men are starting to go to the gym in Parsippany nj which has a high Indian population (yes I know everyone is not into muscle) They are much more buff and display a new confidence almost a bit cocky ( which I actually find a bit hot). I think the nerdy stereotype as all stereotypes had a bit of truth at one time , but it is rapidly changing.
“White, Latino (honorary whites), Mixed, Asian, Black, Indian”
I disagree with this lineup, I think Asians would be at the bottom in terms of physical attractiveness and ‘Mixed’ is just an arbitrary group. The funny thing with Indians is that the gorgeous one tend to be really gorgeous and also have caucasoid prototype (white boy facial features with tanned/bronze skin).
Btw, the term “Honorary Whites” refers to Asians. Just saying.
Then where would black guys be in your lineup?
I think everyone puts them at the bottom for no logical reason………
Sadly, you’re right about that. Hell, I’ve even done it but I finally learned the race doesn’t matter. It’s the personality (and well, kisser status, bad kisser gets you the boot no matter what race).
Bullshit, you Are attracted to what you are attracted to and that includes facial features and even skin colour!!
Install a fake GPS app and repeat this experiment across Asia to see if they find white guys more attractive than Asians too.
You are an idiot…. Yet gays want to be equal in society
Of all the comments I love yours the most.
Incidentally enough, Blacks make the top of the list for me!
As a bottom in my 20s I always figured I’d settle down with a black male). I didn’t meet or see a lot of black men at the bars in the late 90s though (Dallas/Ft. Worth, Tx). I did meet many at the adult bookstores. I went to an all black gay bar here at that time and for a shy white bottom it was a disappointing experience. Black men were pursuing other black men.
I’m glad to hear you lucked out on Black men, Steve. It sounds to me like you were looking for Black men not as human beings but as mere sex objects to gratify your insatiable asshole vacuum. Black men during that time were where Asian men need to be today. They were finding safety and solidarity within their own community in the face of a world full of hatred and white supremacy. I’m happy to hear you didn’t get lucky with Black men because Black life matters and are not mere objects for your white pleasure.
Steve, don’t get yourself in a knot over it. It’s just a preference! Everybody has a preference.
This is exactly what white people don’t understand. They dehumanize people of colour when looking for a date far more then they dehumanize other white people. Just because a white person pays some attention to a person of colour they automatically think they are entitled to be reciprocated with boot licking gratitude. This reminds me of the days of slavery. White people think that they are God’s gift to people of colour. People of colour do not owe white people shit!
Hey George. Thanks for your comment. No worries I’m not getting myself in a knot. I don’t take my cues on race from them. I was sharing my story to bring some insight to the discussion. Many of those commenting seem to live their lives in front of a computer with no actual real world experience. Their assumptions only come through a racist prism. If I were to draw my conclusions about race relations from here I would say we have too much freedom. These individuals sound like they’re making sociopolitical decisions and their world outlook based on their Grindr experience! Wow! And they get to vote?!
I find black guys are preferred by bottoms, but not by tops.
Interesting how you distinguish those of South Asia heritage as “Indian” and not South Asian or Indian Asians. South Asians are just that – ASIANS. It Is like my saying things like “Mexican AND Latinos” when Mexicans are Latinos as well.
INDIANS are not Asians antropologicaly. They are CAUCASIANS
You an idiot
the article is 100% dead on.
I think we all get why most white men are honored this “royalty”.
The bottom line is that its stupid, superficial, lack of a human connection and again, stupid.
Its interesting to see comments that reply “you like what you like, or attracted to”, we as humans are conditioned to be more attracted to whites. We see them EVERYWHERE in EVERYTHING. So where do you think the mentality comes from, its called your being schooled on how the world works in regards to race/attractiveness.
I’m a black male with flawless dark features, shaved head, sharp bone structure and get compliments at least 5x’s a week from eager white men who think I’m just going to exchange mouth fluids because he’s hot and white…GROSS! No! I’ve experienced enough of bad sex, no bedroom skills and horrible everything in my abercrombie days. I prefer ethnic dark featured asian, black, latin primarily – I need a skin tone in my jurisdiction-its way hotter and the connection makes it better only because the white complex is unattractive and disgusting. In my book, white isn’t right, its OK. Just OK. Remember, we are conditioned to think they are and they know it. I just can’t. Anymore.
I prefer Latin and Asian guys – they make me hot – 18 to 30 – And I am a Black guy
You are being not only stupid and superficial (to use your language), but also hypocritical.
You think a white guy who is not attracted to asians or blacks is stupid and superficial. But then you go on to say “I need a skin tone in my jurisdiction-its way hotter and the connection makes it better only because the white complex is unattractive and disgusting”.
So it’s OK for YOU to be more attracted to someone from your own race, but if a white person is more attracted to someone from their own race, they are stupid and superficial?
And I just had to laugh at how you call yourself “flawless” . .there’s no such thing!
I don’t see anything hypocritical about it. He’s saying that he prefers his guys without white privileged ignorance. There’s a lot to be said for being attracted to a guy that inherently understands you.
When he says “the white complex is unattractive and disgusting”, it has nothing to do with “understanding” someone. He’s a hypocrite, pure and simple.
racist elitist hateful douche
You’re wonderful. Really. White supremacy exists.