Who doesn’t like being a hot white guy? You’re pretty much a Greek god in the gay community and there really isn’t anybody you can’t get. For others, you often find “no asians, no blacks” in dating profiles, which shows how racist and white-centric gay dating can be.
You see, there’s a totem pole of races in the gay community, with white people at the very top. It sorta goes like this: White, Latino (honorary whites), Mixed, Asian, Black, Indian, etc. This hierarchy is responsible for all kinds of phenomena in the gay world. Take, for example, the fact that Asian-White couples often consist of an older white guy with a younger Asian. Or at the very least, an Asian who’s substantially more attractive than his white counterpart. It’s never the other way around.
The bias extends to pop culture. When was the last time you saw an Asian Abercrombie model? All of the main characters on Queer as Folk were white. Heck, all the main characters in the latest HBO gay drama Looking are white even though the show is set in San Francisco where a third of gays are Asian. And of course, how can we forget about gay porn?
And so I wanted to find out for myself what every gay Asian knows – no matter how hot or young you are, you’ll suffer the inevitable Asian “discount” that’s applied when you hit the dating/hookup market. What better way than on the most shameless, unapologetic, and narcissistic venue: Grindr.
The Asian vs. White Grindr Experiment
Who’s hotter?
I whipped out two phones, loaded Grindr, and put two similar looking jocks to the test: 28, 5’10”, 170lbs, muscular, 8”uc. What’s not to like? Their profiles were exactly the same except one was Asian and the other white. I carried around the two phones for a week to different cities and here’s what happened.
Raw uncut data
So being Asian my whole life, I finally know how it feels to be a hot white guy for a week. The white guy comfortably gets 1.5 – 2x more messages than the Asian. There’s no other conclusion than it’s great to be white. You’ve got twice as many guys lined up ready to suck you off or get pounded by you.
Another thing you notice is that there are many hot guys who are simply off limits to Asians. Here’s one guy I tried to message as the Asian and it didn’t get very far. Gays love to use the “not my type” excuse as cover for any number of prejudicial preferences. When I message the same dude as the white guy, and I instantly get cockshots, details on how much he wants to pound my ass, and whether I can host.
As a hot white guy, you can expect a near 100% reply rate. In fact, you wind up with the problem that more guys are messaging you in a day than you can realistically sleep with in a month. This explains why as a white guy you can get away with being a complete douchebag. Why would you waste your time with anyone other than the cream of the crop? And why settle down when you can have an endless stream of orgies?
As an Asian, you can only hope to be so lucky to get the pleasure of a response. Just for fun, I sent a fellow Asian a message as the white guy. He thought it was some kind of joke, like I was a white guy coming to the back of the bus.
Conclusion
If you’re a hot white guy, keep on doing what you do best – being white. You’ve got it made until your skin starts to sag. But not to worry, you’ll still have younger Asians flocking to you.
If you’re not white, the only real solution to this problem is to pray to god that you’re born white next time. There’s an inherent bias against us and you need to know for all intents and purposes, you have no realistic chance of dating a hot white guy your own age. Changing the mentality of a whole community doesn’t happen overnight, and it certainly won’t happen in your generation.
Slightly off topic, but I find “sticky rice,” “rice queen” “potato queen,” etc, so incredibly offensive. Do gay asians not even respect themselves enough to stop demeaning themselves with these terms?
Well let me break it down… Most asian men, young and old, who work out or not, are twinks; most young white guys who work out are jocks, while most older white guys are bears. It is therefore no surprise young white guys are popular.
What make asian guys less popular in the gay community are the same qualities that make asian women so popular (in fact the most popular race according to an OKcupid study). In gay america, a skinny twinky white guy may not fare better than a skinny twinky asian guy.
So I would argue it is more of the result of physical, emotional attributes than race among whites. However, from my observation asians somehow do have an obsession for whites probably due to their “cultural upbringing” of moving up the social-economical ladder.
You guys do realize that this is nothing new right? And it’s really not important either, unless you want to make it. So young white want to be with other young white guys, what does that take away from you? Nothing. 15 years ago way before Grindr and Iphones and location based apps there were Asian authors writing articles on the internet whining about White guys were ignoring Asians in clubs and about Asians who would do anything to date white guys. In all likely hood, 15 years from now there will another pathetic soul like the author who wrote this whining, not being able to get “hot white guy” to respond on the latest gizmo app. This author meanwhile will moved on, older and wiser, he’ll have come to the realize how silly and unimportant all this is (hopefully hhehe)
This is bull. I live in Australia and I’m 28/w/slim. There’s a lot of hot Asian guys in my city and I just can’t get one down. They all want hookups and the ones that are in relationships seem to have gone for the older white guys
Hey Younghite: it’s kinda true about what your saying but I’m a 39 years old and I’m a Bear and definitely not ugly, but find it so hard to get a date with a good looking Asian guy… My theory is there are a lot of white guys in Australia that are beginning to find Asians attractive and Asian guys are now able to be more choosey or they are finding the hottest looking Asian or white guy (the elite) …Everything runs in cycles… Maybe Asians will be most desirable guys in the future.
People have preferences. It doesn’t make them racist at all. But some of these comments.. omg.. flat faced mongoloid? 0_0.. obnoxious idiot.
Anyway, I don’t really mind what race guys I pick up tbh,as long as they fit what I consider my type I am good :3 That doesn’t mean just anyone and I reserve the right to say no but am I umm pro white / not into asian. No.
From my experience as an average Joe Asian, I was always the side kick to my white best friend but I still get laid because of my winning attitude. Percentage of white guys into Asian is small, some worst in certain city than others. Just don’t let that bother you and just have a good attitude and things will work out.
my story: gaysian bottom 4 aggressive bareback white tops. in the five years that i was sexually attracted, i contracted HIV, Hep C, and other std’s. Now my body/fAce have the tell tell signs of being poz. Asians don’t wAnt me. Whites just want me as their cum hole. WAS I BORN TO SERVICE WHITE RICE?
well you get what you work for.
False, Middle Eastern men are more desired than White Men https://raceandtechnology.files.wordpress.com/2014/10/reply-gay-male.png?w=584
Author sounds so insecure… You act like only white people can get laid. Maybe you’re just ugly?
“Never the other way around” – lol please, I see so many fugly fugly gay asians with cute white guys in SF and it makes me so sad for the white guys, I -really- don’t get it. Not only are their faces unattractive to me, I also have a really strong sense of smell, and asians just do not have a good natural smell. It’s different for everyone though!
Also, white’s are considered more popular here because you’re in the united states, and white has been the staple for the united state’s entire life… therefore, it would make sense. Why would preferences randomly change in the name of your social justice crusade? Go to Asia and it’s going to be the other way around. Kinda common sense yeah? That would be like me going to Japan and complaining that Asian’s are seen as the more attractive male. duh??
Also, let’s stop pretending that preferences don’t exist, because that’s part of human nature. It’s very dangerous to start calling preferences “racist”. That’s so retarded that it makes my head spin. You can’t apply your social justice to the human brain.
Mein Fuhrer stated: “I see so many fugly fugly gay asians with cute white guys in SF and it makes me so sad for the white guys, I -really- don’t get it. Not only are their faces unattractive to me, I also have a really strong sense of smell, and asians just do not have a good natural smell. ”
Nice to expose your racism. What happened to Alexandra Wallace will happen to your ilk, so be careful you Nazi scum
this is bullshit, yeah who do not like white guys?
but for me i like black guys.i think its more cute if i date black people..
blame Disney for your problem
Isn’t promiscuity a sign of low self esteem and a result of an abusive childhood? If there aren’t more Asians hooking up on these sex apps, doesn’t that possibly mean they have higher values and standards? There’s a reason why so many white men are HIV positive and so few Asians are. This article makes it sound as if you aren’t out there getting gangbanged by low lifes it’s because of white racism. I would take the rejection as a compliment. As an older man I find all this hooking up on apps strange to begin with, mediated reality. Too bad so many bars and bath houses have gone away. Seems you were better able to get to know someone in person, regardless of ethnicity, back in the real 3-D world. (A stiff dick has no conscience, you know!) Seems as if these apps are actually mangifying and perhaps increasing segregation. These articles aren’t helping to bring people together either, just further politicizing the already difficult arena of gay life. Too many gay men end their lives alone, with a few biological family members and some few friends if they are lucky. I have known way too many gay men, White, Black, Asian, Latino who have simply shuffled off to their deaths without any lover by their side. These race baiting articles and these promiscuity apps, don’t seem to be helping any.
As a gay Latino male it is also fact that Hispanic gay men do not find Asian gay males attractive in any sense. There is enough variety in Latino culture to stick within it as Hispanics can be from black to white and every hue in between… from eye and hair color etc. etc. And then there is the various culture within Hispanic culture. Puerto Ricans, Cubans, Mexicans, Salvadorans ….and the list goes on. Any straight Salsa club from New York to L.A. and Miami is testimony to the mixture of various Latino groups and how we get along with each other on the dance floor. Anyone saying otherwise is just a fool. Oscar De LA Hoya and his Puerto Rican wife and kids are just one in a million examples. It is hilarious that Asians in general feel butt hurt that whitey doesn’t want them permanently other than maybe a quickie. My observation in the straight dating circles I always see Asian women chasing any man who ISN’T Asian. That is proof right there that gay OR straight Asians don’t find themselves attractive. I could go on but I find Asians much more prejudiced that White people are. And that is a fact!
Hi, I found your article to be very true with everything you said but some gay cultures can be slightly different in other countries. I’m a white Australian and Sydney where I live is a massive hub for every single type of Asian in existence. But I have found down here the Asian guys can actually be a little bit more choosey… I have actually experimented also but not in the way you have which I think was done very well.
Now I live a 5 minute walk to the gay clubs of Sydney on Oxford Street and a 10 min walk to the CBD and 20 min walk from China Town, so you can imagine I’m in a prime “catchment” for every type of gay guy… So in my profile I say “I only prefer Asian guys” but most of the time guys never read read this, we all know it’s more about the pic!! when I use Grindr in a day for every 1 Asian guy that texts me I get 5 white guys and even white guys say “shame you only like Asians”… when I send a “hello, how are you :-)” to Asian guys for maybe every 10 over the period of a week or two I will get maybe 1 reply if that… Now I have been to Thailand twice and Indonesia twice and once to Japan… Every time I land and I’m on on the way through each of those cities I receive every single time, more than 100 texts and that’s before I have a chance to even check-in and on my last trip I had 50 texts before I even got off the plane!!!! … So to me the difference is that asian guys who live in largely white populated area are more choosey about the white guys they meet if those white guys like asian guys and there is definitely an increasing amount of white guys that are attracted to asians here in Australia… Why wouldn’t there be, Asian guys are amazing… I find that Asian guys here have a massive choice in the perfect muscle white guys on offer… Im a Bear so I don’t have a perfect body so obviously I’m not at the front for most Asian guys here 🙂 … but totally opposite when in Asia…. So please, it’s not all doom and gloom for Asian guys, just stay true to yourself and where you come from and please be proud or continue to be proud of what you look like because there are white guys like me out there and we think you look incredibly cute, come from amazing cultures and are just the same as white guys… You should never feel left behind gay culture… For me, I see Asian guys at the very top of that totem, always!
it is a sweet uplift message despite you self awareness of the racial issue but you have spinned it off in the most positive way…thank you …dont ever lose that
My honest suggestion for Asian gay men:
1) Start working out with some intensity. Get a killer body. The male body is relatively easy to change compare to the hour glass shape the sizes that women really can’t do much about. It’s a very efficient investment given how much emphasis gay men put on bodies.
2) Play to your advantage. IN GENERAL Asians have soft features, which some gay men do not prefer but others do. You can also play off of contrast, “face of an angel and body of a devil” kind of thing. You may say that it’s unfair that Asian men need to work harder to play the same game simply due to DNA, but those same DNA also makes Asian men IN GENERAL possess higher metabolism, so perhaps in the end the time spent on work outs are close. Not to mention that those DNA (and not DNA alone of course, cultural upbringing and influence also have a large role) also give you those stereotypical “Asian advantages” that often prove to be key factors for long lasting relationships. It’s a trade off, and if you can lift your eyes past the surface, you may find that everything is two-sided. Play to your advantage is a rule that applies to EVERYTHING in life, especially to primal instinct driven activities, as often there are no clearly-laid-out reasons or justifications. In those cases, don’t worry about the why and how and should, just focus on the game, bend the rules, play it the way that gives YOU the upper hand, the goal is to score.
3) Having said that the goal is to score, but before that perhaps you need to realize what is it exactly that you want to score. Which game do you want to play. Do you want to play a “board game”, or do you want to play very specifically the “checker”. ‘Cause, you know, you might be a natural at chess but you just keep fixating onto “checker”. If the goal is to land yourself a good partner, then don’t worry too much about a method that cuts off a lot of your advantages, there are other methods out there, there are other ways to approach your goal. Like others have said, play YOUR game, don’t just dive into others’ game thinking that it’s fair — it’s not, never supposed to be, whoever set the rule would definitely set the rules at least slightly to their own advantage, often it’s much more effective to simply set your own rules than trying to struggle with your hands tied back.
wow …agree 🙂 thanks 4 the other side opinions … it is a def a good point of view
I’ll tell you what. Stop chasing after ‘white gods’ as you put it. They are ONLY ‘gods’ in your eyes because you wish to be like them. Take pride in your Asian culture! Do you (are you) attracted to your OWN kind? Yes, white gay culture is in ways more racist than the KKK, but it is your inner self loathing that puts them on a pedestal. In the white gay arena, people of color are considered ‘fetishes’. If you’re black or Latin then you are some angry ghetto dominant top who wants to ‘wreck’ white hole! If you are Asian, you are some sub bitchy rice queen who is the boy toy to some old gross grandpa. Agreed? There is nothing AT ALL wrong with being attracted to whomever you like, but if you find that you are ALONE because no one in that ‘school’ likes you back, you better look somewhere else buddy or you’ll be jacking off to white porn, Grindr profiles, and white porno magazines the rest of your life! To me that spells……IDIOT.
If you create your OWN social dynamic, you will see what comes to ‘you’. If a cute black, latin or white guy is genuinely and respectfully attracted to Asian men and Asian culture, they’ll come. Blacks and Latins have done it. They don’t go around sniffing up every white gay environ. There are Latin and black gay clubs and bars. If whitey is down, he’ll stroll through. HOWEVER, whitey will also get a lesson as well if he comes in there expecting his white stereotypical impressions. People of color are not looking for someone to ‘rescue’ them. It kills me when I see white men stroll into predominantly black or latin clubs/bars and think they can impress them with $$. Ummm, this is the 21st century…….people of color have corporate jobs and good credit. LOL! This isn’t 40 years ago. And lastly, BLACKS AND LATINS ARE BOTTOMS TOO! LOL! Just saying.
Also, being that you are calling out prejudices, have you asked yourself or put to the test what percentage of Asians are interested in dating blacks or Latinos? Hmmmmm? Sit back and think about that one. You are just as prejudice as you’re saying whitey is because I RARELY see Asians approaching OTHER people of color. Agreed? So, that said, don’t get all mad because whitey don’t want you…..you are just as guilty for not wanting others.
My suggestion for Asian culture and Asian gay culture is to STOP TRYING TO BE LIKE WHITEY. Stop trying to adopt their ways, looks (walking around with umbrellas in summer so as to not get their skin ‘darker’), style, lifestyle etc etc. It’s prevalent in Asian culture. I know this first hand…..I live in Koreatown in LA and work (in one of the high-rise buildings) near UCLA campus. Asians (and other cultures too) are always trying to ‘whitify’ (yes, I know it’s not a word) themselves, but do you EVER see whites trying to LOOK like Asians? WHites may try to ‘adopt’ some black traits (full sensual lips and tanned skin or curly-ish hair) but you NEVER see them trying to adopt any Asian traits (eye shape, skin tone or life style for that matter) do you. Hmmmm? Yes, they are not attracted to you in ‘that’ way. They’ll spend $$ eating at fancy Asian restaurants but that’s about it. Again, just pointing out fact.
Lastly, trust me you are NOT missing out on anything trying to connect on Grindr and all those other apps. People kill me saying they are “looking for friends”. Bitch please! You’re looking for dick! The only ‘friendship’ I have seen is when a ‘hook up’ didn’t work out as planned. LOL! You are probably better off anyway staying away from those apps. Not ONE quality person is on there. They are all looking for the next best thing. Could you imagine starting to ‘date’ someone from one of those hook up apps? You’d be a fool. He (or even YOU for that matter) would still be ‘shopping’ on the sly for something better. Also, from what I hear, MOST of those hoe’s on those apps are HIV positive and/or have some other STD brewing down in their loins. The way I see it is to let them have that cesspool of disease ridden cum junkies. Let them wipe their prejudice selves out.
Thanks and good luck to you all in finding the right person for you. I found mine and yes, he’s an Italian dude that stepped up to me respectfully and correctly. We’re going on 10 years now I’m happy to say. =)
Wow , well said. Too bad that whole nations and ethnic groups have been
indoctrinated by the success and spread of White western culture, ideals, $Money$ and Material goods, Hollywood and mass Media. The reality is that for ” gay Asians” western whites will continue to be their gods and Masters for a long time to come; such is the Asian state of mind and disposition.
Money and material goods? White western ideals? As if white people invented bling and greed? You haven’t spent much time in Hong Kong, Beijing or Ho Chi Minh City where it’s ALL about BLING! And it ain’t got nada to do with whiteness! It has to do with status something that existed in pretty much ALL cultures long before evil whiteness crept in. You sound like a racist.
Actually, I never said anything about the evilness of white people, because as history teaches all Ethnic groups and Nations have walked in darkness and greed at one time or another. My simple theory (based on experience, observation and the ongoing stories of others) is that the White western race …especially as represented in popular gay culture is “idolized” and lusted after by many Asian groups while excluding other ethnicities including their own. So the White gay culture really is not the bad guy here it is rather those who blindly lust after it as if it is a standard of Perfection, Status and Heavenly Bliss.
Your amazing !!! Very well said
Do you call him “whitey”?
Not sure if the Blog master has discussed the two types of racism that pervades online cruising.
The first is the Aversive racism that avoids contact or is hostility dismissive in rhetoric in tone…ie ‘not into Asians” and “just a preference”.
the second form of racism, which is covered, is called “racial fetishism”. White men, gay or straight, often seek contact with the racial Other out of curiosity or to disavow their racism. I call this fucking one’s racism away. After all how can a White guy be racist is he sleeps with Asian or Black guys, is the (false) underlying assumption. E
Essentially, there is no problem in finding another race attractive. However, White guys seems to loose sight of the Individuality and essential Humanity of the Other. They have a tendency through language/rhetoric to commodity , reduce, dehumanize, objectify the racial Other. The racial Other is often reduced to a “thing”, like a toy or worse, a piece to toilet paper, to be played with/used and discarded. Then it’s on to the next disposable body.
White guys, especially those uncomfortable with their gayness and masculinity, seek out “feminized” Asian male bodies to make themselves appear “more Masculine”. Like you state, why is that often nondescript, and unattractive White guys can nail down attractive young Asian guys? White guys deliberately seek out certain Asian body types, smaller, hairless bodies, that render White guys as somehow “normal” and “more masculine”. In this way, they have Dominance over Asian bodies.
There is not commitment to the person or wanting a deeper relationship or understanding of racial and cultural difference. White is “superior” anyway is the general understanding of such liaisons.
I think the Blog Master should take sometime to compare the similarities and differences of how Asian and Black bodies are objectified and/or stigmatized vis a vis the “normalcy” and “idealized” White gay male body and sexuality.
There are other less angry reasons why white men would date Asians. If you try really hard you just might be able to come up with a few that don’t have to do with “fucking their racism away” or “racial fetishizing”. There is always the possibility that Whites might have had bad experiences within their own culture driving them out to other more affectionate arms? God forbid you consider white men to be human beings also. Angry people of color come off sounding just like reverse racists.
You’re a crashing boor. I’ll bet you have a difficult time maintaining any relationship, what with the giant chip on your shoulder.
By the way, you’re welcome. What for you ask. For the gay playground that white men built for you. So that you could then bitch about how white men are so racist.
Very interesting analysis on the dilemmas of Gay Asian males. Not ‘bitter” at all, but just stating some rather unpleasant truths about White Privilege among White Gay males and the Complicity / internalized oppression Gay Asians participate in.
it is true that White European Gay males are Centre and Dominant to the Understanding of Gayness. They are represented everywhere online—–cruising sites, porn, tumblrs. They come in a variety of types and hair colours—Twinks, College Boys, Sex Daddies, Jocks, Gingers, Blondes, Nordics, Red-Neck boys, you name it. I dont think Asian many have that many types and distinctions. No one bothers to distinguish between Chinese or Japanese, or Pacific Asian.
White men “rule” in the sexual playground and marketplace because it has always been their privilege since the colonization of African and Asia. it was not only women that White men raped and had dominion over, but also Gay men.
What I dont like about White Gay men, is sometimes an arrogance that Men of Colour are always available to them and to serve their needs.
but the sad reality is that Men of Colour, especially critically unconscious ones, Comply because they wish somehow to be validated through the eyes of White people as being beautiful, acceptable, worthy and also to garner some of the myriad privileges and freedoms white gay men have that they don’t have in their often conservative / homophobic communities.
I think this a great discussion…but the author needs to start talking more about White Gay male privilege and the ways in which it manifests itself and how Gays of Colour buy into it.
And I wish the white guys on this tumblr would stop denying and disavowing their racial privilege, try to understand what this dude is critiquing….White Gay males are indeed top and centre and they know it…but discount what that means socially and how it is a form of Racism / White Supremacy!
Brevity is the soul of wit. You have neither.
Who appointed you as the literary critic here, Bill…?
you’re no doubt one of the Rice queen White guys under interrogation here with no identification / empathy for what’s being discussed.
P.S. I’m sticky Rice, but I I don’t mind a some potatos, beans ,acorns etc on my plate too ^.^
Sounds like a healthy , well rounded diet! Cheers!
It really depends on the person’s moral and quality values. I have had BF’s that were Russian, Red~Neck, Asians, Mexican etc. NOT simply because of their race, but because who they were. I am from San Francisco , I see young asian guys with young white guys, I see old white guys with young asian guys, I see old asian guy with old white guys, I see asian guys with black guys, I see Mexican guy with asian guy. GRINDR, is for hookups , of course the guys you meet there are snotty,rude, bias, racist etc. Because that kind of website is not build for quality of an individual~it’s for hook ups! And since it’s not a quality base site, you are meeting likely going to meet a quality guy. I have a grindr too, but I don’t invest in it. I invest more in dating sites like POF.
This is the most abhorrent article I have ever read. It borders on pathetic for many reasons: Firstly, the low opinion to which you associate yourself is visible to others and that is most likely what makes you unappealing. Secondly, your obsession with white men is sad. There are hot men in every race, it is not the sole perogative of Caucasian men. I am a Punjabi guy and although it may seem arrogant, at 27 I am considered by the vast majority as hot. Chiseled body, light green eyes and a fairly sculpted face. I do not take it as an infringement on my appeal if someone else has a racial preference, we all have preferences. At present I am dating a so called “hot white guy” but I assure you that his race was not the reason we started dating.
I find Punjabi guys are ugly and I don’t care about skin color.
I totally agree, they’re ugly as fuck.
It will be hard to change. In western society, how often are asian men, or Indian men ever portrayed as attractive? The only “famous” asian men I can think of are the skinny funny guys in comedies (rules of engagement and parks and recreation).
I don’t know what it’s like in the real dating world, but on apps like Grindr it sucks. Even the guys looking for “friends” ignore asian guys.
Im south asian and only in to white guys, so I can understand only being attracted to white guys, but its the douches who don’t even respond that sucks. anyway..i’ll just be rich and famous and then treat them all like crap ha!
In the Dallas, Tx area I don’t see a lot of Asian men in the gay bars. The few times I have seen Asian men, even ones in their 40s (maybe older) they seem very aloof and unapproachable. I’m a good looking white guy but it’s very difficult to connect with Asian men my own age or older. That’s been my experience over the last two years. Perhaps the problem is pining after the white guys who aren’t attracted to you but when a white guys says he’s attracted to you then you think there is something wrong with him.
LOL…love that comments
What a bleak article! Now really though, are these white guys the type of the people you want to hook up with anyways? They’re jerks! I admit that I had a racial preference; I liked white guys. I have made friends with a racially mixed group of gay guy friends whom I previously wished to fuck some of the white ones. Then their personality showed, and the irony is that I wished there was an indication that some were racist, sexist, basic, etc. These white guys aren’t the people that I would like to take to bed, and I finally realized my inane preference for them. For me, an open personality and perspectives of an individual who likes me for me matters so much more than looks. I’m not saying that looks doesn’t matter, because it does, but I now catch myself when I exclude others in my peripherals.
As for Grinder, we have to take it for what it is: a place for people to be narcissistic and shallow; a place to judge others so we can have intimate pleasure; and an app that perpetuates one’s concept of beauty. In other words, Grindr is a way for us to be efficiently primal (racist, ageist, sexist, etc.) without physically being in an eye’s shot of one another. Discrimination is a problem and it should be stamped out in all situations. On Grindr it’s easier to discriminate, but it’s also that much easier to ridicule those who do.
funny but true :/
“…you have no realistic chance of dating a hot white guy YOUR OWN AGE.” – So I guess you have your prejudices too. What goes around comes around.
You better stick to your own kind ugly flat faced mongoloids!
I so sorry I will only talk to my fellow ugly mongoloid creature people. Because we not pretty like you… so white, soft and sharp noses. Maybe next lifetime I pray to Buddha 🙂
Hey, its silly how colours are fought here.. Come on all people in the world are worth it and can fuck with who ever they can find to fuck.. No? 🙂
What a horrible thing to say. Lots of Asian guys are very good looking, why would you even say this?
What happened during you’re childhood to make you suck a sad ,disgusting , racist pig ? COME ON BECKY , JUSTIFY HOW PATHETIC YOU ARE ! COME ON I NEED EXPLANATION