Who doesn’t like being a hot white guy? You’re pretty much a Greek god in the gay community and there really isn’t anybody you can’t get. For others, you often find “no asians, no blacks” in dating profiles, which shows how racist and white-centric gay dating can be.
You see, there’s a totem pole of races in the gay community, with white people at the very top. It sorta goes like this: White, Latino (honorary whites), Mixed, Asian, Black, Indian, etc. This hierarchy is responsible for all kinds of phenomena in the gay world. Take, for example, the fact that Asian-White couples often consist of an older white guy with a younger Asian. Or at the very least, an Asian who’s substantially more attractive than his white counterpart. It’s never the other way around.
The bias extends to pop culture. When was the last time you saw an Asian Abercrombie model? All of the main characters on Queer as Folk were white. Heck, all the main characters in the latest HBO gay drama Looking are white even though the show is set in San Francisco where a third of gays are Asian. And of course, how can we forget about gay porn?
And so I wanted to find out for myself what every gay Asian knows – no matter how hot or young you are, you’ll suffer the inevitable Asian “discount” that’s applied when you hit the dating/hookup market. What better way than on the most shameless, unapologetic, and narcissistic venue: Grindr.
The Asian vs. White Grindr Experiment
Who’s hotter?
I whipped out two phones, loaded Grindr, and put two similar looking jocks to the test: 28, 5’10”, 170lbs, muscular, 8”uc. What’s not to like? Their profiles were exactly the same except one was Asian and the other white. I carried around the two phones for a week to different cities and here’s what happened.
Raw uncut data
So being Asian my whole life, I finally know how it feels to be a hot white guy for a week. The white guy comfortably gets 1.5 – 2x more messages than the Asian. There’s no other conclusion than it’s great to be white. You’ve got twice as many guys lined up ready to suck you off or get pounded by you.
Another thing you notice is that there are many hot guys who are simply off limits to Asians. Here’s one guy I tried to message as the Asian and it didn’t get very far. Gays love to use the “not my type” excuse as cover for any number of prejudicial preferences. When I message the same dude as the white guy, and I instantly get cockshots, details on how much he wants to pound my ass, and whether I can host.
As a hot white guy, you can expect a near 100% reply rate. In fact, you wind up with the problem that more guys are messaging you in a day than you can realistically sleep with in a month. This explains why as a white guy you can get away with being a complete douchebag. Why would you waste your time with anyone other than the cream of the crop? And why settle down when you can have an endless stream of orgies?
As an Asian, you can only hope to be so lucky to get the pleasure of a response. Just for fun, I sent a fellow Asian a message as the white guy. He thought it was some kind of joke, like I was a white guy coming to the back of the bus.
Conclusion
If you’re a hot white guy, keep on doing what you do best – being white. You’ve got it made until your skin starts to sag. But not to worry, you’ll still have younger Asians flocking to you.
If you’re not white, the only real solution to this problem is to pray to god that you’re born white next time. There’s an inherent bias against us and you need to know for all intents and purposes, you have no realistic chance of dating a hot white guy your own age. Changing the mentality of a whole community doesn’t happen overnight, and it certainly won’t happen in your generation.
This is complete rubbish by a” chip on the shoulder” inadequate . I am a white guy who has “yellow fever”. I also have “red fever”. I am particularly attracted to red heads. This is not because I think myself superior to red heads or that they are all “firey ” and better in bed. They are no different to anyone else other than having red hair. for some reason I am not attracted to blonde haired ( but do like black hair whites – I do have yellow fever!). Should blondes feel bad that I don’t find them attractive? Its a big world and prople are different in what they fund attractive. GET OVER IT!
like to make it clear that personality is the most important thing in any attraction and that I have dated blondes, just not many as I dont find that look attractive. I am therefore unlikely to hook up with a blonde.
I am a white american and my boyfriend is hispanic/latino. we never had an issue with our “race” or background. He likes physical features I have such a hairy chest, taller and beard and I like that he is smooth, no facial hair and cute. That, however, doesn’t define the love we have for each other 🙂
Hispanic / Latino is not any race. They have Caucasian facial features. Nice try.
It’s funny how this article exalts white man. Have you ever thought about writing an article about ethnic groups like,Asians, Indian, Latino, Middle Eastern etc who are not actually into white men, or are not too fussy about them. I’m latino and I had my fair share of white blokes. Never really had an awesome sex with them. I can’t even get a hard on looking at a white ‘model’ hunk any longer. Reason being about 5 years ago I dated a middle eastern man, more precisely a mix between Arab and Kurd. Now, I’m just obsessed with this kind. His Masculinity and sex goes off the roof. No more sissy whites 4 me, thanks, no matter how good looking, cutie is certainly a no no. Any feminine characterises, i.e pale white skin is a total turn off. I pre-cum just by talking to this Arab horse on the phone! (his voice omg!) I’m converted to these real unpretentious, not self-conscious, straight acting(I hate this expression, but queers will know what I mean) hunks! 😛
I love it how mean statements are ok when it is about whites
I don’t know about you all guys. I’m Asian and still a hot commodity wherever i go.
What the author is saying, along with some of the commentators are saying is that you’re only a hot commodity because racist gay white men deem it so. And that you have no control over that and just a victim of white racism.
https://www.facebook.com/austin.khawlhring
What the author is saying, along with some of the commentators are saying is that you’re only a hot commodity because racist gay white men deem it so. And that you have no control over that and just a victim of white racism.
As a masculine gay Asian man in my late forties, I can attest to the validity of Angry Asian Guy’s experiment. Add ageism in the gay male community and, well you figure it out.
I have some Northern Japanese blood so I am rather hirsute for an Asian man and there’s nothing feminine about my personality or presentation. I am a veteran of the US Army, am muscular, athletic and have cultivated my understandings of life, society and it’s institutions, the politics of race, class, patriarchy and the media. I am a sturdy and substantial man by any measure (if I may be so bold as to state it). But you’d think that I was the ugliest and most pathetic creature ever to log on to Match.com. I stopped posting ads on any sites because the negative bias toward Asians was just too profoundly hurtful and obvious. For my own sense of self and integrity, I am sitting it out and hoping to meet someone in real time.
Rice queens have never flocked to me and in fact, I think that I scare them. Which is fine by me because I can care less about anyone who “specializes” in Asian men and bases their attraction on stereotypes and a tacit acknowledgement of their White superiority to all men of color.
Online, I am a nobody. That is why when I discovered bath houses I was astonished at how many men wanted to have sex with me (in the shadowy labyrinths of secret desire). As a profile online, “Asian” is a label that is immediately associated with feminine, passive, weak, intellectual, disembodied, lacking in passion and virility, etc. The familiar phrase “No Asians, No Blacks,” seems to have died away and has been replaced with a silent click on the mousepad. If I just wanted to get laid, I could. Guys are constantly hitting on me in the sauna at the gym, but I stopped those shenanigans long ago since I am really interested in a relationship.
It’s crazy. And sometimes, I feel like I am crazy. Am I deluded and just “think” that I am okay (maybe better than ok?), but am really that thing that the dominant gay male culture sees me as? Am I a sexless, worthless piece of shit? The logical solution is to find another nice, sexy Asian guy to be with. But easier said than done. Most Asian men have drunk the Koolaid of racism and internalized homophobia -or just taken the path of least resistance. Assimilation and dating a White guy may provide security and access to social capital that he might not otherwise ever accrue on his own. So I don’t blame Asian men who make this choice. But that leads me to my current dilemma. Hit me up if any of this resonates with you!!! earimoto@gmail.com
Based on your description of yourself you sound physically attractive. Being around Asian men all my life I understand that as a man of Japanese descent you’re not necessarily the type of Asian sought after by rice queens. I’m a recent “rice queen”. I was turned by an awesome sexual experience with an older Thai male a couple of years ago. I was bewitched and continue to be to this day. I live in Dallas, TX so it’s not so easy to meet gaysians. You sound attractive in a way that more closely resembles the white male but still with Asian characteristics. I’m American white on my father’s side and Hispanic white on my mother’s side. I was raised in a large American community in Latin America (my father was military and my mother was from Panama so he found a military civilian job after retirement and we stayed) and my demeanor/personality/sensibilities are bi-cultural. I moved here in my early 20s and have always been an outsider. My circle of friends and life experience doesn’t reflect that of someone American raised in the local suburbs. I have two Asian American friends. Both raised here. They’re very “American” in their demeanor and sensibilities. They’re popular and very well off. They travel all the time. I maintain my distance because I view them the way I do other financially well off gay Americans. My trust is low. One of them though is very friendly and we’re warming up to each other. I think he appreciates the “differentness” I bring to his world. Either way, I have basically 0 sexual attraction to either one of them…..just like I don’t have attraction to most of my gay white brothers. American gay men, typically financially well off, seem too entitled and self absorbed for my taste. My Hispanic friends (Mexican, Puerto Rican, Peruvian) have their own issues but they’re familiar to me in a way that I understand and can deal with. I have the unique perspective, as a well educated white male, of being perceived as an insider of sorts by the American-raised males (white, black, Asian, whatever) I meet and know. Because I maintain my distance, except for meeting for drinks or the occasional party, I think they see me as aloof or boring. I don’t come out and tell them the truth because there is no need to do so. All people aren’t meant to be close friends or lovers. I shared my background with you to give you some insight into why you’re having a hard time meeting someone for more than sex. It’s not because you’re Asian-American. It’s because gay American men aren’t warm creatures. You’re too “distant”. Your background, having been in the military during the DADT years, means that you may have developed other issues over those years. You may have trust issues of your own that you’re not owning up to. I dated someone in the military when I was very young while I lived in Panama. He was in his mid 30s. My insider/outsider insight tells me that gay Asian-Americans have a hard time meeting and settling down with other gay Americans because of their own dysfunctional personalities……only slightly different from their fellow Americans.
You know I do find gay men not as nice now. Years ago before the gym obsession began, gay men had the stereotype as being well gay and more sensitive and nicer than straight men. Now we are much more shallow.
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You’re not in a wheelchair and half of your face was not blown off by a bullet. You live in rich country. Stop feeling sorry for yourself. There are plenty of opportunities for you to fulfill your life. The Asian /White is simply supply and demand. Try being negro in North Norway or white in Ghana. And try the reverse! Lol.
If a guy is refusing date with another guy, who is athletic / well built, 20 something, and does not have any obvious facial deformity, chances are : the guy is rejecting the entire race… Sorry, may sound too broad. But fact.
I am a North Indian guy in Germany, who like many others from extreme Northern part of India, sits on the fence between Mediterranean / Arab (highly desirable) and Indian (undesirable) ethnics.
Going by my profile pic (taken in bright sunlight, wearing Sunglasses), I can hail from anywhere between Spain to Iran to North India. Just for experimental purpose, I changed my ethnicity from ‘Indian’ to ‘Mediterranean’ and the count of proactive messages / replies increased more than 5 folds.
However in course of photo bargain (something very typical in Gay sites), I encounter very specific demand for close up pics with eyes and cheekbones clearly visible. About 40% of those (where the interest is mutual) back out.
“What’s not to like” is the uncut part….ewwww
LMAO at you doing this “experiment” this was so funny lol You’re so complexed that you even did that LOL It’s too much dude. I’m a happy asian guy who is in a 4 years relationship with a boy that I freaking love no matter what his race is. We live extremely happy while you just live life like an old angry man LMAO Common man be happy, it’s free. BTW we’re both currently 23 years <3 I love you Mark <3
@Over it
Why does it always have to be about race? I’m a white guy and I’m attracted to white guys pretty exclusively. It’s not because I have anything against other races, it’s the fact that I CANT CONTROL who I’m attracted to. You know, like being gay? I can’t just decide to wake up tomorrow and be attracted to women. I’m wired from the inside to like men. Similarly, I can’t choose who turns me on. It’s how I was born. It’s not a race issue, so don’t make it one.
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It’s clear from Over it’s comments / imposed upon complaint, why does it always have to be about race”, that you havent given much critical thought to your White racial identity—-an Identity has that historically, socially and ideologically has been advantaged / structured for Power and Privilege.
You have not thought much about the social meanings of being White because you have never had to. Everything, all the world’s systems and institutions continue to look like, represent and identify with you. You in your disavowal’s that race should have any relevance to discussion, you remain unaware of the Ideological Consequences that Race has had on Non-White Others…East and South Asian and Black / Africans. I am reluctant to include Mid-Eastern/Islamic and Latino peoples, as I consider them to be Off-white Ethnicities who walk in and out of Caucasoid – European identity when they choose, contingent on territory – where they live in the world.
In your Privileged Perspective of being racially White, Overit hasn’t given much thought to what the racialized person might feel about being objectified under these fetishized / Value Laden “preferences”.
Finally, when Overit states he’s “attracted to white guys pretty exclusively’, well that could easily be considered Racist / White Supremacist in itself. So, does this not mean that you can identify ONLY with other White people, see Only other Whites within your group as “beautiful”, “desirable”, “normal”, ideal”… ? Obviously, your attraction to Whites and corollary Aversion to Non-Whites is indeed based on something Ideological that you have not bothered to critically examine. Why?
I find these kind of critically unconscious comments, ” It’s not a race issue, so don’t make it one”..by White commentators rather useless to discussion.
It’s easy for you say this, cause you have not been a target of Discrimination or Exclusion or worse Violence and Death!
These comments only Confirm that Whites lack critical race consciousness about their own WHITE IDENTITY and what it means socially. They cannot recognize any other perspectives outside of their own reality. Yet, they are always quick to minimize, deny, do away with the LIVED Experiences and Consequences of non-White racial identity. They have rendered the voices and experiences of People of Colour Relevant and “subjective” / lacking in any Objectivity.
It’s like Hetero people who do the same in silencing Gay voices and rendering their lived experiences with discrimination / homophobia irrelevant !
And this reality is more than just about Grindr Dating and Sex—-but social equality / justice, opportunity /quality of life. All things that Whites take so for granted. It’s disappointing hearing this from an obviously privileged White Gay male who feels he has the right to speak for others who aren’t White.
I agree that racial power structures definitely have influence within the gay community, whether that be in relational matters, or the wider societies that we occupy.
Just remember that white men do not have power and privilege throughout the whole world. How would a (gay?) white man be treated in Nigeria, or the Caribbean? Or throughout most of Africa? He would be jailed, put to death almost immediately. In those countries, power and prestige are awarded to black and Arab men, regardless of the number of white citizens and workers (e.g. South Africa, which is being driven into the ground politically).
Also, don’t be so quick to dismiss other non-white races which aren’t exclusively black. Mixed, Latino, Meditteranean, Arab men may look a lot closer to one, but are fundamentally NOT white Anglo-Saxon men. Their ‘lived’ experiences matter just as much as yours.
None of this has anything to do with the attractiveness, desirability and sex appeal of (all) non-white gay men, who, as I’ve always stated, are as beautiful, masculine and arousing as any other man.
OMG. Thank you for everything that you said. I know it’s a lot to ask for, but the level of discourse is frightening on this blog. A gay man who gets race and how multiple oppressions put those affected into a double bind is rare indeed. Eric 🙂
I am white, love red heads and prefer brunettes to blonde. There are some really good looking blonde, I just don’t find many attractive. I also have an attraction to east asians. Am I a victim of colonialist imperialists racist ideology? Or are you talking nonsense?! 😁
Why does it always have to be about race? I’m a white guy and I’m attracted to white guys pretty exclusively. It’s not because I have anything against other races, it’s the fact that I CANT CONTROL who I’m attracted to. You know, like being gay? I can’t just decide to wake up tomorrow and be attracted to women. I’m wired from the inside to like men. Similarly, I can’t choose who turns me on. It’s how I was born. It’s not a race issue, so don’t make it one.
@Over it.
you said
( I can’t just decide to wake up tomorrow and be attracted to women. I’m wired from the inside to like men. Similarly, I can’t choose who turns me on. It’s how I was born. It’s not a race issue, so don’t make it one.)
There are many scientific studies (psychological and biological) that indicate Homosexuality “might indeed be a genetic/biochemical ” predisposition.
There is not ONE study that indicates “attraction” to a particular is a result of DNA. Chromosomes or some other genetic predisposition.
There is not ONE study that indicates “attraction” to a particular RACE or Ethnicity….. is a result of DNA. Chromosomes or some other genetic predisposition…….
Being mainly attracted to your own race is pathetic and is racism. The idea of wa ting to date someone that looks like your cousin in the year 2015 is laughable and gross. Taste the rainbow dude.
That’s so dumb. People can be attracted to whomever they want. Why do people like u judge people for expressing their own personal preferences. Doesn’t make someone racist just cuz they like their own race. Some people are apples and solely like apples while others may like oranges. The world is a big bowl of fruit and everyone should have the freedom to choose what fruits they like to eat without being judged and called names. You big papaya!!
Personally I’m a mango and love mangos. I’m not into apples so much.
I agree. You like what you like. Sometimes it’s race based sometimes it’s not
read this study…asians are more racist then white men
http://angryhomosexual.com/jackd-racism-study/
The essential “problem” with Asian men, is that they are not regarded as “ruggedly” masculine. They generally lack the HAIR that White Europeans have constructed as Masculine. Having smaller toned bodies hasnt helped either. So they have been seen as “less masculine” or even “feminine” vis a vis White Anglo males who can operate it Both Ways as the “Normal” standard. They can be soft and hairless as Twinky youth and as they Mature become Hairy Bear Daddies, Brutes, etc. Not so in the trajectory for maturing Asian males, as I Notice the obsessive discourse on YOUTH applied to Asian men.
But is the masculinity quotient / desirability situation any better for Black males? They are Hot, Hyper-Masculine and desirable only when they are Young under 40; Black males have to be always Hung and/or Buff and preferably TOP but still loose desirability at an Increased rate than White guys as they age. Where are the Black Daddies over 50 and over represented on Tumblr or Porn…? Blacks over 45 are Hardly ever represented as being sexy or sought after.
But White guys DOMINATE / prevail in everyone’s understanding of “Hot mature Daddy”. It becomes a representational privilege that also White males to move around with ease in the sexual market place. They can be confident, that if a Young white guy doesnt want them, then they have an Option of going Asian or Black, cause these men are not quite as picky or hung up about Age.
I agree, asians do lack the masculine look that most gay men are after…
I myself am attracted to rugged masculine to stocky build men…and apparently white men dominate those traits. Although I much prefer a mixed raced guy who have those traits, but in rare occasions, there are Asians who are beefy, slightly hairy and totally out of the twink zone that definitely makes my legs weak and pants magically dropped lol.
There plenty of “hot” older black daddies and their admirers.
I am an older white guy. I would never have sex with another white guy. Asian men are hot!
Incredible, few people think as you
Love your comment, cuz l am a Asian.
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Yet I see so many ads specifically looking for a small femme asian sex slave on CL.
@onrebrof
Yet I see so many ads specifically looking for a small femme asian sex slave on CL.
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And is this a good / positive phenomenon…? Or does it just speak to the way Asian men are just commodified as slaves / disposable bodies by the White Gay community…? And “castrated”..? Also, it should point to how Asians might be just a bit Complicit in their own oppression by lending their bodies to these ads and the sex trade. And yes, I am aware of the argument that they might not have much choice and say in the matter. Everything is about Survival….But males still have the privilege of saying NO…more than females have to Sex trade work.
I think Angry Asian should one day conduct an experiment and discussion on Interracial racism involving Asians (East, Pacific and South) and Blacks.
Would it be fair to say that Asians (East and south) do one of two things in cruising / looking for LTRs. They either completely Ignore Black men as potential hook-ups / mates cause they desire the Prized White prince or they too can lapse into racist fetish stereotyping in ardently pursuing Black men for the Mythic Big Black Cock or they subscribe to racist ideology of “Aggressive Dominant Alpha Black male sexuality. There are Asian men who tend to project notions of “ghetto thug” and “gangsta” onto Black men whether the Nxxxas fit the profile or not. I have witnessed many Asian men pursue Black men with these notions in mind. They can be surprising and very offensive coming from a critically unconscious Asian man.
And to be “democratic” in looking at the reverse trajectory, Black men might not be exempt from their own racial prejudices/preferences that reject Asian men as “undesirable” because of their so-called ultra-femininity, small penises, etc. There are Black ‘snow-queens” out there who prefer liaisons with white guys over their darker-skinned Brothers.
There is a curious Competitiveness that can develop between Black and Asian men in their vying for the White guy’s attention.
All of this again serves to privilege White guys in a comfortable centre, as he lords over Asian and Black in the “desirability” sweepstakes. Whitey will do the selecting on how he feels that particular day or whether he wants to Top or Bottom.
I would also include Latinos and Mid-Eastern men as “honorary” Whites/Caucasians who move up and down the racial hierarchy depending on Location. Other than their swarthy tan complexions, they look pretty Caucasian to me and this attribute often serves them favorably for the Anglo-white guy who wants a bit of ethnic difference/exotic spice without completely going outside of his preference group.
But what about Afro Latinos? Where do we fit in the spectrum? Or I guess we wouldn’t be counted as Latino since we don’t look like how the media traditionally portrays Latinos (eg. Ricky Martin)
@Manny. You raise an interesting question. the paradox of where ethnicity meets Race/ism. But I think you know the answer of where Black Latinos fit within the White constructed racial hierarchy—-the Black/African, no matter what country, Brazil, Colombia, Venezuela, Cuba, the Dominican Republic—they are not White. You know as well as I do, that these regions have their own ugly racial histories and legacies and Black caste systems. That discrimination happens in these regions too—Big time. That the darker (the more African one’s features),one is likely to be near or at the bottom of the racial hierarchy. And economically Poor by the way!
Latino is really just a Language, an Ethnicity of European whiteness. One may claim that in the Latino regions, race doesnt matter as much, but definitely in North America the racial system will consign the Black Latin to the “rightful place”, not caring where one comes from or that one speaks Euro-Spanish or Portuguese. If one is dark-skinned, remotely Negroid looking—-You are Black / African. Darker skinned Black and Indio peoples of Central and South America, do not have the same privilege moving in and out of White identity when they choose. Ricky Martin, for all intents and purposes, identifies as White. He is not even MULATTO. That Latinos even have to question /Contest their white identity / regarded as “not quite white” in America should already speak volumes.
I think the times are slowly changing or maybe it’s temporary. But as a college student right now, there are girls and gays who are really into Asians. Maybe they’ve been listening to too much K-pop or eating too much kim-chi and watching all that anime but they are obsessed with Asian guys and culture. They like the nontraditional form of masculinity presented by K-pop stars and I think they feel it’s kinda cool to be with a guy that’s not your typical white jock, kinda like rebelling against mainstream culture. It might also be b/c I go to a school that’s one third Asian but it’s actually “cool” to be Asian here. And I think once you see that the big men on campus include Asian guys, suddenly it’s normal to chase after them.
Maybe this phenomenon will spread into mainstream culture. There are more and more minorities in the US anyway so someday it might be the other way around.
First I must aplogies as my English isn’t my first language (My first language is Auslan – Australia Sign Language).
As your comments above, it’s very interested and everyone have different opinions, both positive and negative (I knew it’s more negative)
For my view, yes, white guys have more option than Asian guys, don’t matter which countries.
For white guys they go Thai, Bali, Vietnam whatever in Asian countries, they are the most popular “hunters” then Asian guys go western countries. My friends who is white guys from Australia and Germany, they visited Thai and Hong Kong and had dated or hooked up with Asian/white guys without problem – almost everyday. But for Asian guy like me, I visited Europe and current live in Australia for 15 years, I only had dated with very few white guys – never have a second date. I knew it’s coz I’m deaf, but also Asian background as well.
Oh well, maybe it’ll be equal in the future – but not my life. 🙁
You’re amazing! And that’s coming from a white aussie guy…. But as more Asian guys coming to Sydney or born here where I live I’m noticing that this trend is starting to go the other way because Asian guys in Sydney have a huge amount of white guys to choose from if white guys are into Asian guys like me 😉 …I get turned down or even get no reply from some Asian guys 😔 …but when I go overseas my Grindr, Jack’d accounts makes my iPhone overheat and that’s before I get to my hotel.
Haha Brad, so you know what I mean. I got very few messages from Grindr or Jack’d, both here and Europe – maybe one message every few days!!!
Other hand, deaf Asian guys are more difficult to choose what white meat they want, compare to hearing Asian guys…..
You’re amazing! 😚
@Brad…
your comments need to be critiqued / examined. You mobilize the very language that is so problematic and make it all sound so well-intended when cruising Asian men. You use language like…Asians have a Huge amount of White guys to “choose” from that is if they want White Aussies who are “into” them…Do the Asians guys really do the “choosing”…?
This is the kind of rhetoric that has a way of “dehumanizing” Asians while actually re-enforcing your White privilege…it is really the White Aussie who has the ability to “choose” . And worse, you seem to “luxuriate” this situation. And when you go overseas to Asia, it is even More “China dolls” for me to pick n choose…all the “sweet n sour pork” you can eat. You appear to Consume Asian men.
your comments / perception is exactly what Angry Asian is trying to Unpack / dismantle. I found your comments critically unconscious and disturbing.
In the land of the blind, the one rued man is king. I heard of negroes going to North Norway and really “cleaning” up with local girls. In Norway negro is rare and therefore desired. Get over it.
why does it surprise some that white guys are deemed so desireable? when i was growing up in the midwest ( i’m now over 55 ) white males were everywhere…movies, tv, advertising,music…as the preferred special ones. asians werent represented. we were invisible. so my views were slanted ( sorry ) towards popular white males. i’m not saying i was brain washed ( or white washed ) but i was heavily influenced by media and pop culture. then and now. i’m certain if i was raised in a dominant asian environment ( hong kong, thailand, the phillipines, tokyo etc ) my preferences would be different.
Whoever wrote this is definitely a loser, who said being white is always good, who said being Asian is always bad, the point is if you are a loser, no matter you are Asian or white. Personally I only into masculine guys no matter Asian or white. If you are girly or bottom, you are nothing to me, no matter who you are! So save yourself some words and keep it to yourself. Wrote such words online thinking you representing all Asians, so pathetic!
THANK YOU
As a 29 yr old white guy, I have always been more attracted to the Asian older muscle bear. The only problem is, they seem so far and few between when fem and/or flamboyant, “cute” Asian twinks seem to be a dime a dozen.
Yes, first of all this experiment in fact is all about who can be the biggest whore in the community. And it is not true. Asian gay is not good at being muscline comparing to white. Asian gays are famous for being cute and slim. You should compare Asian twink and white twink. Not jocks!
Damn. And being an Asian guy I feel guilty for being attracted exclusively to fellow Asian men.
same here
In the beginning of the 90s I was a twenty-something white “twink” who liked slightly older Asian guys (early 30s). Now I am a 49 year old guy who likes slightly younger (as in late 30s-40s) Asian guys. Go figure, Angry Guy.
Some of you may hate what I’m going to say, but I’m going to spew some helpful truth here. The biggest problem with Asians is that all of you think everyone else is on the same, fair, even playground as you. Believe me, they’re not. Those white “gods” that you’re talking about? You know, the hot guys at your gym, and in the mags? 80% of them are on steroids- yes, even the ones that don’t look like Mr Olympia. Take some steroids and over time you and eventually your offspring too, will have a hot body, broad shoulders, strong face, and hairy body. Want to climb the corporate ladder? Well, it’s not through hard work alone like your Asian parents taught you…nope- ever heard of “networking” (ie scratch your back and you scratch mine)? Well, you need to play that game just as well too. Go get those “friends” that will get you to where they are, just like everyone else does. I think I just gave enough wisdom for now, but yea- don’t be fooled into thinking you’re on the same fair playing ground they are.